Advise - I cant do this with him anymore

Hi Ladies .... I hope u's are doing better than wat i am... I need advise .. I dont know what to do anymore ... He's hurting me but i love this guy so much...

Here's the thing, my boyfriend has been having these intimate sexual chats with various woman (including his ex wife) telling them that he wants to be in them and pleasure them... he's even invited some of these woman out for drinks... I wouldnt be too concerned bout it but i mean come on im 27 weeks preggies... He never did this before EVER it all started when i became pregnant, he's made arrangements with one woman over email to "be alone with her in a room", am i over reacting by feeling like nothing we have matters to him???
I've tried to leave him but everything he tells me im all he wants and needs but then a week later its the exact same thing...
And his porn, i told him how i hate it right... but everytime i'm looking for a movie on his pc there it is ... LOADS of EXPLICIT shit... he says he isnt disrespecting me with it, but am i wrong in saying that if i find it offensive and disrespectful and he continues with it, that he is in fact disrespecting me by down right showing me that he will not respect the fact that i dont like it???

I need some advise, we have been fighting since i am pregnant... bout these things and i dont know what to do, he says i turned my family against him, but its his actions toward me since im pregs that have made them distance themselves from him.... He says i exclude him from everything, but im always asking him to join me, its him that always wants to do thing by himself???

Any advise welcome please ... I am in such a fragile state....
I mean this morning i read a whole chat thing with him and ex wife saying that he cant wait to sleep with her ... and that he is so hard for her nw and wants her to erupt with him insde her???
I called him t tell him its over and he called me childish and said he did that for a reason??? What reason could there be for hurting the person who is carrying your baby and so in love with u???
Im shattered ...

the best advise you can get from us on here is to LEAVE HIM! no woman should ever have to read stuff like that from her man to another woman.you love him an your carrying his baby but honestly its not your hormones that are making you feel upset its your heart! you should not let him do shit like that an just cry to him about it.you have to do get up and leave! it may be hard an it may take time to get the courage to leave but momma if you stay an he says he will stop that just means he will find ways to do it on the sly..and for him to call you childish an try to turn the problem from him to you is soo rediculous! dont let him treat you like that i had a guy do shit like that to me an the minute i didn feel pain from things he did anymore was the minute i stopped talked to him an seeing him.being pregnant does not mean you have to sit around an cry while your guy is allowed to talk dirty to other women..

If he is talking to other women about being with them sexually and telling them that he can't wait until he is inside them, you NEED to leave him, even if its hard.

first of all, you should be proud of yourself for taking action and not letting him walk all over you. No one derserves being treated this way, especially being pregnant when you are caring for a little one inside of you. Right now you need to do what's best for you and your baby which is you don't need this extra stress right now. Yes, he's a jerk and I can't believe that he doesn't have the heart in considering you and your baby right now. I don't think the hard part is leaving him, I think the hard part will come when he comes crawling back and asking you to take him back and when you have your baby he might want to be in his/her life. I'd give him an ultimatum and leave and make sure you have a good support system around you and keep surroiunding yourself with good people and stay in a positive enviroment. That's all i have to say right now. I wish you the best and you know what's the right thing to do. Trust yourself and ask yourself what's the best thing for you and your baby.

Quoting Shely:“ Hi Ladies .... I hope u's are doing better than wat i am... I need advise .. I dont know what to do anymore ... [snip!] ... What reason could there be for hurting the person who is carrying your baby and so in love with u??? Im shattered ...”

I didn't even read that much after the first few sentances in the second paragraph....LEAVE HIM!!!! He OBVIOUSLY doesn't respect you or "love" you if he's talking like that with other women. He sounds like a total piece of shit, there is NO reason for him to do that shit. Leave him.