re: confused about what to do

Quoting almosta MOM:“ I was in a verbally abusuve relationship, there is NOTHING you can do to make it better-it's all him. ... [snip!] ... with? If you do leave do not answer his calls, it will be hard but it is for the better, if it's anything like I think it is.”

i moved up here so he could be close to his family and my entire family lives in Ar 600 miles away

call somebody up to come stay in a hotel a couple days and you can leave with them.
Otherwise if you could get ahold of a church and ask them if there is anyone they know who can help you get away from him

I'm sorry for your situation honey, and I know it must be super hard now that you're preggo. The bad news is it only gets worse! He might not put his hands on you now, but it'll most likely escalate to that. And what you need to worry about is your baby. What about when the babies born, who's to say he doesn't get a bad temper with your child once it's born or even shake it outta frustration? And do you really want someone in your child's life like that? If he acts that way to you, it's only a matter of time before your babie's old enough and he treats it the same way...You have a lot of thinking girly. GOOD LUCK

this has been going on for awhile..but its so hard 2 leave..bc of the good days and i want us to be a family.

Quoting sparklebabygirl:“ this has been going on for awhile..but its so hard 2 leave..bc of the good days and i want us to be a family.”

The good days aren't worth putting up with the bad. And no matter what you think you can never 'fix' him. It's not you and the sooner you realize the better. It may be hard but you need to think about your baby and yourself.

Quoting sparklebabygirl:“ i moved up here so he could be close to his family and my entire family lives in Ar 600 miles away”

can someone come get you? or take a bus?

i'am trying to but so far i have had no luck