re: Do I make the call or not??

Quoting ♥Kitch:“ She doesn't HAVE to go and tell his mother and father and get them involved. It's quite honestly none ... [snip!] ... his mom and dad sat there coaching him the entire time and he surely didn't have them ridiculing him to go and get some.”

Ok.. so what.. she's suppose to HOPE that sitting down with him would get him to pay, and then if he doesnt just possibly be out MORE money in the long run? I dont think so.

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ I am telling you its not my daughter's fault because she still deserves to have visitation Its not her ... [snip!] ... Its not her fault he doesnt pay. If I were to with hold visitation I would be in violation of the Indiana Parenting Guidelines.”

Okay, I think it's pretty clear that you already had it made up in your mind that you were calling his parents but you just wanted to be justified. That's fine, it's your call, your life, your child, whatever. However, by posting it all online, you asked for other opinions and when you got them you didn't want to hear them because they didn't justify what you decided. I'm officially done with this arguement because there's no other side of this for you.

Quoting ♥Kitch:“ To make it perfectly clear, I was suggesting that she sit down with her child's father and talk to him ... [snip!] ... means, but as she got older I'd let her know that her father wasn't ready financially or emotionally at the time for a child.”

Of course I have to pick up and move on. Trust me for the 2 years I didnt get shit I did just that! The lines become gray when you are 100% responsible for every finanical tidbit of your child.
I just sent my daugher to kindergarten this year. Do you know how much that costs???

Quoting ♥Kitch:“ Okay, I think it's pretty clear that you already had it made up in your mind that you were calling his ... [snip!] ... they didn't justify what you decided. I'm officially done with this arguement because there's no other side of this for you.”

If you might want to notice, other people said I shouldn't call either. They left out the "maturity" bullshit. I am not narrow minded. I just think you are making assumption based on whatever the hell you feel like.So if something should happen in the future and you are down and out, I hope your kid starves, because well you should have thought about that when you made him/her.

See how stupid that sounds???

Quoting ♥Kitch:“ So she should go tell his parents and drag them into the whole thing? That's pretty childish IMO.”

As her BG friend, I was going to advise against it. Meanwhile, reading through the posts, I found your comment. As her friend, I had totell you that was inappropriate.

Quoting Kate Did It:“ As her BG friend, I was going to advise against it. Meanwhile, reading through the posts, I found you comment. As her friend, I had to tell that was inappropriate. ”

I havent decided what I am going to do yet. I guess its just going to be a matter of getting fed up. If I could be anymore so than I am now.

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ I havent decided what I am going to do yet. I guess its just going to be a matter of getting fed up. If I could be anymore so than I am now.”

Ok... so is there an order of child support? your department of economic security can help you enforce the child support order and garnish his wages

have you done this already?

Quoting Sadie 700:“ Ok... so is there an order of child support? your department of economic security can help you enforce the child support order and garnish his wages have you done this already?”

I dont mean to be lazy, but I dont feel like typing it out.  
Around the 1st page I was asked about that and I explained it.

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ I dont mean to be lazy, but I dont feel like typing it out.   Around the 1st page I was asked about that and I explained it. ”

I'm even lazier and didnt want to back read  

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ I havent decided what I am going to do yet. I guess its just going to be a matter of getting fed up. If I could be anymore so than I am now.”

I would say leave your parents out of it.
And, have as little contact with someone cunt, as possible.

Be strong, sister. Hold out, if you can. Be the bigger person. Blah blah blah. And, do what my mom did when she was mad at my dad (her ex)...Go outside and throw rocks (at something you can't damage) to work it out.

I know that sending your girl to school and the insurance are serious deals. Maybe, explain to her that you will get her what she absolutely needs for school right now and get the fun stuff later. And, can you callthe insurance company and see if you can extend the pay date?

Quoting Sadie 700:“ I'm even lazier and didnt want to back read  ”

Do you want me to copy and paste? I can do that.

Quoting Kate Did It:“ I would say leave your parents out of it. And, have as little contact with someone cunt, as possible. ... [snip!] ... school right now and get the fun stuff later. And, can you callthe insurance company and see if you can extend the pay date?”

I don't personally have anything due now with insurance. I am just saying I provide everything for her. He was supposed to keep insurance on her and he didnt so I picked that up too. Its just a principle of frustration you know?
Can I throw rocks at him???

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ I don't personally have anything due now with insurance. I am just saying I provide everything for ... [snip!] ... on her and he didnt so I picked that up too. Its just a principle of frustration you know? Can I throw rocks at him???”

Tape his picture to a trash can or imagine his face there. That's what momma did!

Quoting Kate Did It:“ Tape his picture to a trash can or imagine his face there. That's what momma did!”

I think I am passed that part. I just cant figure out how he takes care of his baby, but cant pay child support to Maddy.
Does that make any sense whatsoever?

Because if he didn't...he's be in deeper doodoo. He's being irresponsible and he can only be so irresponsible. You know the saying...don't shit where you sleep.