one year next month. vent....kinda =/ advice?

me and my fiances 1 year is next month and i want to have sex with himm soo bad! i wanna have sex with him now all the time soo bad! but i dont turn him on anymore cause of the extra weight i have from after the baby. he says he just cant do it. it kills me inside. and i've been doing everything to lose the weight n nothings worrkingg!  since my c-section my stomach has been hurting almost all the time and i blackk out or it gets hard to see things if i sqwat down or kneel down i think this has something to do with why i can lose weight but my O.B. says theres nothing wrong with me. but i knoe there is!   i just dont know what to do. i love him so much n i just want him to want me.  

If he cares about your weight that much after having his child..something is wrong. There's no reason he should just be completely turned off by you, afterall, you're still the same girl.

Quoting *Andrews mommy!*:“ me and my fiances 1 year is next month and i want to have sex with himm soo bad! i wanna have sex with ... [snip!] ... wrong with me. but i knoe there is!   i just dont know what to do. i love him so much n i just want him to want me.  ”

i say find a new man if hes that much of a jackass over baby weight.

He doesnt deserve it..

Sounds like theres something wrong with him. Its not always easy for women to lose weight after baby . You had his child he shouldn't be so insenstive to your feelings. If I were you were are able I would work on losing the weight and then when you look all good deprive him of sex for awhile. 

Quoting *Andrews mommy!*:“ me and my fiances 1 year is next month and i want to have sex with himm soo bad! i wanna have sex with ... [snip!] ... wrong with me. but i knoe there is!   i just dont know what to do. i love him so much n i just want him to want me.  ”

I'm sorry sweety, that is so sad  . He is the one with the problem. There should be other things that turn him on besides your outward appearance. IMO he's being shallow and cruel. I wish I could tell you what to do  , you are doing everything in your power, but don't do it just to please him!

thankk youu everyone!   im not sure what im going to do with him things have been kinda rockky but lately things have been great, besides the sex part. i knoe looks airnt everything. i have a lot to thinkk about.

thankk you all again!<3