my husband is deployed and its been 10 months since i had my baby and i have no sexual feelings and my husband is comeing home next week so obviously we are haveing sex so i wanted to get a head start and found out that i can not please myself is this normal

I wish i had that problem. i can only get off by myself   

Maybe I just had really sucky boyfriends though, hmmmmmmmmmm now this is a problem!!!

PORN, DILDOS.. maybe you just need to find out what you like  

It took me aaaaaaages before I could get myself off. Toys usually help if I can't do it  

only with a vibrator. The rabbit is the best.

Quoting ♥kaylees mommy:“ my husband is deployed and its been 10 months since i had my baby and i have no sexual feelings and my ... [snip!] ... week so obviously we are haveing sex so i wanted to get a head start and found out that i can not please myself is this normal”

Maybe your just worried about him coming home..more like nervious?

go to www.pureromance.com and order a couple of their toys... the bullet is wonderful... not that I know or anything   lol To be honest I have the BEST orgasms when I do it myself

Quoting ♥kaylees mommy:“ my husband is deployed and its been 10 months since i had my baby and i have no sexual feelings and my ... [snip!] ... week so obviously we are haveing sex so i wanted to get a head start and found out that i can not please myself is this normal”

hey my hubby left 6 months ago for south korea and we went from having sex everyday almost too since the day he left i haven't wanted anything. granted i am prego but i didn't find that out till a couple weeks after he had gone. It may just take ur hubby being there for it to work for ya. From everything i have ever read women get more help from physical contact with their significant other. i really wouldn't question it if i were u until u see how it is when he gets home.

Quoting BabyBoyInNovember:“ only with a vibrator. The rabbit is the best.”

he actually got me it and i have not really worked up the nerve to use it yet

Try a vibrator. I have the "rabbit" and can get off in under a min lol. It's the best $80 I've ever spent!

Quoting ♥kaylees mommy:“ my husband is deployed and its been 10 months since i had my baby and i have no sexual feelings and my ... [snip!] ... week so obviously we are haveing sex so i wanted to get a head start and found out that i can not please myself is this normal”

IMO sometimes sensuality can be a big turn on. Don't "force" yourself to do something. Take a bath, or lay in bed naked when your little one is asleep. Its little things that seem to always work.
You could always go buy a new toy or something to your liking to get a new feeling. On the other hand, waiting it out until your husband gets home could be a great thing too. I am almost positive after one good kiss you should be good to go....  

Ever since I got pregnant I can not get off on sex  
I pretty much have sex just to keep my boyfriend happy.

Quoting ♥kaylees mommy:“ he actually got me it and i have not really worked up the nerve to use it yet”

omg after the first time you use it you'll prolly never be able to put it down! lol

Quoting Kelli Jo & Bebe:“ IMO sometimes sensuality can be a big turn on. Don't "force" yourself to do something. Take a bath, ... [snip!] ... your husband gets home could be a great thing too. I am almost positive after one good kiss you should be good to go....  ”

i sure hope you are right its gonna suck if i have to fake it lol

Quoting ♥kaylees mommy:“ he actually got me it and i have not really worked up the nerve to use it yet”

 Better get to work then!

thats ladies i think i am going to maybe put my big girl pants on and figure this rabbit thing out sorry if that was even more tmi