I just don't want to!

So my husband wants me to take a shower with him...and i just don't want to! He keeps bugging me about it! I'm just scared I guess lol...i'm sure this might seem silly to alot of you girls...but do ya'll have any advice?

Quoting Sherbear2050:“ So my husband wants me to take a shower with him...and i just don't want to! He keeps bugging me about ... [snip!] ... me about it! I'm just scared I guess lol...i'm sure this might seem silly to alot of you girls...but do ya'll have any advice?”

Why are you scared?

Lol yeah,why are you scared?

Just tell him,NO means NO. 

Yeah whats the big deal i take showers with DH all the time.

I hate my body...even before i had leola....

What are you scared of. Showering together is ok. Not as romantic as they make it in the movies in my opinion. LOL I mean one person is always standing out of the water or getting soap sprayed in their eyes. And sex is ho hum, I'm always worried I will slip and fall. But at the same time it can be a great turn on! All that warm water and slippery soap!  

i'm a nerd i know...lol..

I miss taking showers with my bf soo much...

Quoting Sherbear2050:“ I hate my body...even before i had leola....”

you may hate it, but I bet he does not care! Men love women period! Especially the one that is in their arms   He is not looking at your flaws, he is marvelling in the fact that he was a beautiful warm naked woman in his arms!

Quoting Sherbear2050:“ I hate my body...even before i had leola....”

Well its nothing he hasnt seen before and been with before. And he loves it and wants it. Let your anxiety aside and give a try you may decide you like it but perhaps just surprise him by slipping into his shower one day instead of "planning" it. But imo shower rendevous pretty much always sucked for me.

i'm no help. I hate my body right now too. My boyfriend swears he thinks I'm still hot. But I don't. Its so frustrating because if he likes it, why should it matter. I just can't get over it. Me and you just need to get over it!

I get ya, Before i had my first baby i was fine..
Now the only time he gets to see me naked is when i am over 5 months pregnant because i am comfortable then.

Obviously hubby loves you so you should talk to him about it

Quoting Glenda-Rae:“ you may hate it, but I bet he does not care! Men love women period! Especially the one that is in their ... [snip!] ... arms   He is not looking at your flaws, he is marvelling in the fact that he was a beautiful warm naked woman in his arms!”

awww...thanks that kinda makes me feel better

Quoting BabyBoyInNovember:“ i'm no help. I hate my body right now too. My boyfriend swears he thinks I'm still hot. But I don't. ... [snip!] ... Its so frustrating because if he likes it, why should it matter. I just can't get over it. Me and you just need to get over it!”

lol...yeah i guess we do

Quoting Sherbear2050:“ I hate my body...even before i had leola....”

hun im sure if he thought your body was bad he wouldnt wanna take one with you. but it seems like he finds you attractive. So maybe you should give it a ry but not if your really uncomfortable with the idea of it.