re: to all my african american mommies answer me this?

Quoting ymj:“ Well I get my hair relaxed and it always takes. So I never been through that before. Maybe if you go ... [snip!] ... due now. So maybe afterthe baby is born then go get one done. Some people just cant do relaxers maybe you may be one of them.”

maybe cause i go natrual then back to the relaxer. i'm natural more than i am relaxd. so maybe that has somthing to do with it.

Staayyyy Natural.

Why did you try to relax in the first place?

Quoting Makayla and Jaxon's Mom:“ all the more reason this boy needs to come out. he has already jacked up my skin now he's on my hair. he just isn't being very nice to his momma. trying to make her ugly!”

loll!!! haha adont say that. you lok beautiful.. although you may feel like crap. lol all the time... just enjoy it while you can. what rank are you? i usto be in the army myself

My color stays in just fine. Thank god.

hey mama, I've never permed before but try using a deep conditioner then a straightening iron. That's what I use, The says I don't feel like straightening I just wear it natural and curly. It might work for you and it's realyl fast and easy

Quoting Makayla and Jaxon's Mom:“ i had natural hair for a long time before and during my pregnancy, well i decided to relax it a few months ... [snip!] ... the whole pregnancy. so has any of you relaxed ur hair and it did absoutley nothing for you? i'm wondering if its just me”

weeelllll, I'm mixed, meaning I can have "good" hair some days and naps others, but my hair is really curly and I like straight hair so when I got pregnant this time I noticed there was no reason to perm cuz it just didnt work the same! What I suggest is use tons of conditioner, and light light hair oil....WHEN I HAVE THE FREAKIN energy to do my hair this usually produces a nice result! good luck (wont you be glad when you get your body back?lol)

Quoting Makayla and Jaxon's Mom:“ yep did it myself. i've never gotten one by beautician cause its so expensive. its never not took before so i don't get it. i think i'm just gonna get my braids back”

Personally I think braids are lovely.  

I don't believe in "good" hair "bad" hair and I hate those terms when used in reference to African American hair.

Gah!

Quoting Sasha ♥ G. Lennox:“ Staayyyy Natural. Why did you try to relax in the first place?”

i was bored!!

Quoting Yamie:“ loll!!! haha adont say that. you lok beautiful.. although you may feel like crap. lol all the time... just enjoy it while you can. what rank are you? i usto be in the army myself”

thank you! i'm really fustrated with this acne! i'm a 2LT. why did u get out?

Quoting PrettyMomma502:“ hey mama, I've never permed before but try using a deep conditioner then a straightening iron. That's ... [snip!] ... The says I don't feel like straightening I just wear it natural and curly. It might work for you and it's realyl fast and easy”

my hair isn't long enough to you a straightening iron. i'll burn my scalp. thats for the advise though

Quoting Her Name Should Be Beauty:“ weeelllll, I'm mixed, meaning I can have "good" hair some days and naps others, but my hair is really ... [snip!] ... FREAKIN energy to do my hair this usually produces a nice result! good luck (wont you be glad when you get your body back?lol)”

yeah thats what i've been using. its working. i'm just ready for a new look.

Quoting tigerlily:“ Personally I think braids are lovely.  ”

me too

Quoting Makayla and Jaxon's Mom:“ thank you! i'm really fustrated with this acne! i'm a 2LT. why did u get out?”

o0o0o i see. i got out because th hubby is active duty in the navy and i was getting ready to ship out for training for iraq, so it was either i get out or i go to iraq and miss my baby's first 15 months and MAYBE come back. so i got out. thats how i found out i wa spregnant.. i was doing pt to get promoted to spc.. lol

im half black and half italian so my hair is naturally curly but i relax it every once in a while... i did it when i was 3 months and it took but not like it usually does... so i just wear it curly... and i cut it.. lil advice;... dont do anything drastic while preggers... just let it rock u'll be able to go back to normal soon enough...