Quoting antonette:“ i sorry it was hard to read im just feel like i lost out doing it so soon i was just seeing if you guys thought you were better off for waiting”

I'm glad I waited ...not all can say the only man they slept with is their husband... it's special to me. Not everyone feels that way though. You can't go back now... if you feel like you've missed out just make sure it's meaningful when it happens in the future.

Quoting antonette:“ sorry for all the fuck ups  it was a long day ithink i should just go to bed im out”

goodnight

I was 19 and a couple of months.

I was 17 and now i so wish i had waited cos it was crap! i just wanted to get it over with really see what all the fuss was about! wasnt that impressed the first time, i was like " so this is what ive been waiting for?" lol

I was 19. I definitely feel good about waiting until I was in college. I honestly did not even think about having sex in high school. It just didn't ever occur to me.

I waited till spring semester freshman year. And surprise, got dumped the next day. The more partners I had, the more I realized that shapes and sizes and colors and techniques my differ but in the end it's all the same and not that big a deal.

It wouldn't have made a single bit of difference had I waited until I met my husband at 28. But I don't regret any of my experience including the drunken one night stands. It got me to here and I'm happy with my husband. He's the last one and the only one that matters.

But I'm kinda concerned for my baby about the normality of having sex in high school, now that I know it happens. I hope my daughter is as weird as I was in that aspect, but doesn't overcompensate for it in her mid-20s like I did.

i was 18,someone else said there was so much going on in highschool that i never thought of it-i had alot of boyfriends but i think i was alittle prudish...my friends made fun of me,but i never got dumped because of it..I slept with my bf when we moved in together,go figure...then when we broke up i turned into a hussy and slept with more people than im proud of.Just boyfriends,acouple one night stands.

Quoting antonette:“ Im just wondering because it seem like no one i went to school with made it past 14.I sure as hell didnt ... [snip!] ... hell didnt it seems odd that im on baby #2 at 19. theres girls my age that havent even had sex is the somethingwrong with me  ”

I didnt have sex till i was 16 and then its was two months b4 i turned 17 soooo....I mean im still with the same guys im now 20 almost 21...i mean we have almost been going strong for 4yrs now he is my world...He ws my love at first sight 

Doesn't anybody wait to have babies until they are married and have the money to support them?

Quoting brigmama:“ Doesn't anybody wait to have babies until they are married and have the money to support them?”

naw. i wanted to have mine way earlier but it took so damned long to conceive  

Quoting brigmama:“ Doesn't anybody wait to have babies until they are married and have the money to support them?”

Well he makes great money and well i dont wanna get married! so yeah i mean really!

I was 14 and on birthcontrol

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I got pregnant with my first at 17 and had him a month before I turned 18.

My reasoning for losing my virginity was actually very childish. I was being accused of sleeping around by my parents so after constantly being ridiculed and extra sheltered I just did it to see what all of the fuss about and then I couldn't stop...lol. I do wish I would've waited b/c prior to them trippin I wanted to wait until my wedding night.  

Quoting Kari's girl:“ I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I got pregnant with my first at 17 and had him a month before I turned ... [snip!] ... then I couldn't stop...lol. I do wish I would've waited b/c prior to them trippin I wanted to wait until my wedding night.  ”

I think that sounds so weird when people say they 'lost their virginity' (not saying anything personal about you).
I didn't lose my virginity... I gave it to someone; I know exactly where it's at and I don't want it back. lol

Quoting i'm not pregnant:“ I think that sounds so weird when people say they 'lost their virginity' (not saying anything personal ... [snip!] ... about you). I didn't lose my virginity... I gave it to someone; I know exactly where it's at and I don't want it back. lol”

lol...yeah I guess that is a kinda wierd saying...lol
I mist admit I know where mine went too...that would be awfully sad if I didn't lol.

Quoting Kari's girl:“ lol...yeah I guess that is a kinda wierd saying...lol I mist admit I know where mine went too...that would be awfully sad if I didn't lol.”

I know!

But the guy I 'lost' it too was a virgin too.... so if I gave him my virginity and he gave me his we're we still virgins after the deed? lol