Significant other or child?

CFC sparked my interest to make a post like this lol....if you had to chose between your SO and your child, who would you chose? There's no other options and you HAVE to chose. (not life or death, butone wasn't going to be in your life anymore)

My uncle told me before that he don't know what he would do because he is going to be with his wife forever, and he is going to raise his son, to leave him one day, and find an amazing relationship with his future wife, just like he has today...and then repeat the cycle ya know? I thought that was an interesting take on it.

Correct me if I am wrong, but in Christianity, doesn't the husband come first, then wife, then children? I'm curious as to what a Chrisitian would say? Would you pick your husband or child?

I love my son and husband equally, but in two completely different ways. So different, I can't even compare the 2. I don't want to be without either, but if I HAD to chose, I'm pretty sure I owuld pick my son because I feel like he needs me more, even though I think my husband needs me pretty badly lol. My husband would understand as well, because he knows Jacob wouldn't be as well taken care of by anyone else. But, at the same token, I feel sadly because I know my husband won't be as loved by anyone else, nor would I, and that's a sucky thing to think about!

Anyways, such a tough hypothetical question but debate and discuss away lol!

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ CFC sparked my interest to make a post like this lol....if you had to chose between your SO and your ... [snip!] ... I, and that's a sucky thing to think about! Anyways, such a tough hypothetical question but debate and discuss away lol!”

I am a Christian, and you're right, the husband is to be your first priority in life. But I personally feel in this situation I would choose my child because my child has his whole life ahead of him and I want to be there to mold him and love and nurture him. My husband can survive on his own. lol

Not in your life anymore as in dead? Or just in someone else's life?

But either one, hands down, my son. No questions asked. Period.

ETA: Nevermind the first sentence, I re-read your post  

That's an intresting take on it. what your uncle said. i'm pretty sure i would pick my daughter, but your uncles has a good point too. Not that that would make me want to pick my hubby over my child. But i just see what he was getting at.

My child means more to me than any man ever could. There is no doubt in my mind who I would choose.

I'd pick my fiance. But my opinion will probably change once my child is born.. I dunno..

i would pick my daughter hands down. i love my husband to death but my child is my first priority. Just like she is his first priority. i'd want him to pick her over me too.

as much as i love my husband, i would definatly have to choose my son

Quoting twinsplusone:“ My husband can survive on his own. lol”

I agree, hubby's a big boy and can do for himself, my children cannot.

I love my husband to death, but my daughter is my blood, my life. I'd choose her.

Quoting *Ellah's Momma*:“ i would pick my daughter hands down. i love my husband to death but my child is my first priority. Just like she is his first priority. i'd want him to pick her over me too.”

Great point! I agree with you completely. I would definitely expect my husband to choose our daughter over me, and I'm sure he would expect the same from me.

I asked Kyle who he would pick and he said Tait as well, if not, we would have had some problems lol

Quoting *Ellah's Momma*:“ i would pick my daughter hands down. i love my husband to death but my child is my first priority. Just like she is his first priority. i'd want him to pick her over me too.”

I agree with you too....I would want my husband to pick our children over me if he was made to choose.

I asked my bf and he just gave me a crazy look and said neither...   jerk

My son.

I love Rachel...she's an amazing woman.

But if I was forced to choose, it would be Gabriel.

I hope I never have to make that choice.