re: Hard question to ask......

Quoting MommaOfAngels:“ It is understandable. It has been almost 3 years since we lost our first and just yesterday, for no ... [snip!] ... it to be helpful, since oftentimes I felt like there was no one that I could talk to. I would encourage anyone to read it.”

I will actually look that up, thank you!

I have those days too, some I do nothing but think of them.....and others where I won't think of any of that at all. I guess I'm still waiting for the day when I can think of them happily too.....instead of being so sad that I never got the chance to even hold them.

Thank you again, all of you. I really do feel much better.  

Quoting MommaOfAngels:“ I really hope that I didnt offend you. I didnt mean it that way. I actually struggle with this myself. ... [snip!] ... name picked out. I personally hadnt even thought of any names at 12 weeks, so it wasnt something that seemed necessary to me.”

oh no you didnt offend me, i was just explaining the reasoning behind why i had a name for one but i also had 2 others that i did not name, no offensive taken hun, you just said you didnt understand and i was just saying why i named thats all, no worries

Quoting Makaela & Tristans Mama:“ I will actually look that up, thank you! I have those days too, some I do nothing but think of ... [snip!] ... of being so sad that I never got the chance to even hold them. Thank you again, all of you. I really do feel much better.  ”

i often feel the same way as you, its hard somedays and not so hard others, i dont know if the pain ever goes away, i just think of it as they are up there watching over there sister and mommy, i am sorry about all of our losses, and the hard times that fallow, i hope you get through this hurdle and know that the angles are looking down helping you through it

Quoting aileys mommy:“ oh no you didnt offend me, i was just explaining the reasoning behind why i had a name for one but i ... [snip!] ... not name, no offensive taken hun, you just said you didnt understand and i was just saying why i named thats all, no worries”

Oh good. I know that is a super sensitive subject, and on certain days that may have even offended me. I guess I just didnt think before I wrote it and it kind of sounded worse than I had intended.

Anyway.... 

Your daughter is so cute btw! She looks soooo happy in your avi!

Quoting MommaOfAngels:“ Oh good. I know that is a super sensitive subject, and on certain days that may have even offended ... [snip!] ... kind of sounded worse than I had intended. Anyway....  Your daughter is so cute btw! She looks soooo happy in your avi!”

thank you, yea i have days, everyone does, but i understood, no biggie, its hard to word things sometimes when you are typing you cant really put your emations on it presay, so it often gets taken to a different emation