School and a question

#1Okay um those of you that have children in school do you pack their lunch everyday or do you let them pick what they like and dislike from the school menu and pack on the days they dont like???

#2 We were shopping in wal mart and my 6yr old was talking and she said I am talking to my ghost friends!! I was scaerd I was like um what are their names! She said I cant tell!! Anyone ever experience this??

school menu??my kids wish
out here they stand on a line and are given what is there you dont get options
you have the choice to pack a lunch instead for instance if you have a picky child, or food allergies or for religious reasons your child cant eat certain foods..

all kids have ghost friends at one point or another.. it will fade in time

Well I take care of my little sister when my mom is away I ask her what she wants to eat for lunch because she usually dislikes the school food. And for the other question my little sister has a "ghost" friend too and I get kind of freaked out sometimes but its kind of like a imaginary friend. I talked to my friends mother who is a psychic and the weird thing is that she says it is a ghost child who hasnt crossed over yet.

Quoting xVictoriax:“ Well I take care of my little sister when my mom is away I ask her what she wants to eat for lunch because ... [snip!] ... to my friends mother who is a psychic and the weird thing is that she says it is a ghost child who hasnt crossed over yet.”

That is scary!! It was totally out of the blue and she said mom im talking to my ghost friends!! It is creepy!!

I give my son packed lunches, the schools food it crap all pre frozen shit and processed too. atleast i know what he is getting from me is healthy.

about the ghosts, spooky, but it may pass in time, i mean we never can tell 100% if they are just imaginary friends or what....ask her stuff about them see what she says.

yea my BD has a 2 year old adopted sister, its really his cousin though. she was really scared and got scared when she went in his mom's room. then i asked her who was in there and she said MAN! Omg i was freaking. then she'd be fine & go in there and a when she came out this time i asked her who was in there & she said malmal.. which would be her grandma that had recently past.. were guessing anyhow. i dont know.. creepy.

& with the lunch thing, i dont have kids yet. but from babysitting and everything else.. Don't give them choice's. it'll take forever for them to decide. if you give them choice's.. let them pick from 2 outfits or something (:

Quoting wendylou:“ I give my son packed lunches, the schools food it crap all pre frozen shit and processed too. atleast ... [snip!] ... time, i mean we never can tell 100% if they are just imaginary friends or what....ask her stuff about them see what she says.”

When I asked her she said she was not allowed to tell me??

Quoting Mommy with baby boy on th:“ When I asked her she said she was not allowed to tell me??”

ahh maybe she didnt know what to say! or was embarrassed. dont worry too much im sure its nothing. as long as she's happy about it, then its ok. lots of kids have this, and some might be actual spirits, but we will never really know. im always facinated by this, i posted a thread on this about kids seeing/feeling spirits etc a few weeks ago and alot of kids said they had seen or spoke to their granparents (who had died either when they were tiny, or b4 they were born) it's fine.

Quoting wendylou:“ ahh maybe she didnt know what to say! or was embarrassed. dont worry too much im sure its nothing. as ... [snip!] ... said they had seen or spoke to their granparents (who had died either when they were tiny, or b4 they were born) it's fine.”

Okay thanks!! It is just really freaky but Im sure as long as she is not hurt its fine!!

Quoting Mommy with baby boy on th:“ Okay thanks!! It is just really freaky but Im sure as long as she is not hurt its fine!!”

That's it, if shes not getting upset or freaked out then its fine. i imagine it must be freaky for you. maybe if she's in her room talking to them you could listen in and hear what she's saying?

Quoting wendylou:“ That's it, if shes not getting upset or freaked out then its fine. i imagine it must be freaky for you. maybe if she's in her room talking to them you could listen in and hear what she's saying?”

Oh yea I def will!! She was talkint in the store about what color shoes to get??!!! We are going back today to get some more stuff so we will see then!!

Quoting Mommy with baby boy on th:“ Oh yea I def will!! She was talkint in the store about what color shoes to get??!!! We are going back today to get some more stuff so we will see then!!”

bless her. also have a look in the parent with toddlers forum ive bumped up my post about it from a few weeks ago, have a read at the posts from other mums 

Quoting wendylou:“ bless her. also have a look in the parent with toddlers forum ive bumped up my post about it from a few weeks ago, have a read at the posts from other mums ”

Oou okay I sure will go do that now thanks!!

About the lunch thing, our school sends home a monthly menu and I go over it with my kids. The days when there's nothing there that my kids will eat, I pack them a lunch. I'd rather pack them a lunch then them starve lol.