hmm..

okay so theres a friend of a friend who used to run a daycare and she has TOOOONS like 7 storages full of baby stuff like toys cribs etc. she says shes goin to basically give whatever i need for free but id have to wait 2 weeks. so my baby shower is sept 6th which is in 3 weeks. ill take anything from her except car seats and mattresses just because i dont trust them used. i guess my problem is should i depend on her for alot of stuff and get it b4 my baby shower or wait till my baby shower is over and get whatever. i dont really expect anything HUGE for my baby shower cept clothes and maybe like blankets since alot of people invited are friends thats arent exactlyin the best shape money wise. i justdont wanna get duplicates of stuff i guess.im also just scared ill be in labor sooner than i should be and have nothing, ugh stressful mommy mode.

maybe take whatever you want before your shower, and if she doesnt mind and doesnt want it back- if you dont need it you could give it away to someone who does, even charities. Then you get a tax right off too! or like the church nursery, etc.