re: Adoption or Keep?

Quoting McLeary:“ he does look like a scum bag...and I am not one to judge on looks”

i'm saying by look i'm saying how he just left his baby moms and his own baby and then yes his look too but his ways are fucking stupid.

you basically answered your own question...you said you dont believe in abortion and you dont want to give it up for adoption...so the only other option is keeping it...good luck

I dont know what to say anymore... this is not her first pregnancy, her baby daddys 20 (statutory rape) and they broke up 5 or 4yrs ago!!!!

Her post on Pregnancy Survey...
PREGNANCY SURVEY! About You Name?: Caitlin Age?: 17 Height?: 5'5 About The Father Name?: Wil Age?: 20 Height?: 6'somthing. Are you still together?: nope broke up like 4 or 5 years ago. About Your Pregnancy Is this your first pregnancy?: nope When did you find out you were pregnant?: like 6 weeks ago. in june Was it planned?: yano. kinda was. kinda wasn't. What was your first reaction?: ok. this is good. but what is he gunna say? how is he gunna feel? Who was with you when you found out?:my ex. Who was the first person you told?: my mom How did your parents react?: secretivly about it! still can'ttell theextended family. just the household! How far along are you?:12 weeks What was your first symptom?:morning sickness What is your due date?: February 17, 2009 Do you know the sex of the baby?: kinda. we gotta hinch. Have you picked out names?: yuppers If so, what are they?: [Elizabeth "Lizzie" Mae]<-- Girl [Alexzander "Zander" Logan]<-- Boy How much weight have you gained?: 7.5 lbs. Do you have stretch marks?: one Have you felt the baby move?: i guess Have you heard the heartbeat?: nope. About the birth Home or hospital birth?: hospital Natural or medicated birth?:medicated! for sure! Who will be in the delivery room with you?:Wil, Mama, Jasmyne, Shae Will you breastfeed?: idk, prolly Do you think you'll need a c-section?: idk Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:prolly. most likely What's the first thing you might say to him/her?: idk Would you let someone videotape the birth?: naw. cuz ialready know that those mfers willput the bs on youtube and myspace! Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: both

Quoting majela:“ I dont know what to say anymore... this is not her first pregnancy, her baby daddys 20 (statutory rape) ... [snip!] ... cuz ialready know that those mfers willput the bs on youtube and myspace! Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: both”

YUP!*
its on her profile that she is goign to keep it..
i'm now starting to wounder if shes a foney..

sweetie, keep it if thats what u want. my babies daddy wants nothing to do with us. im 17 and can still support it on my own.

Quoting LiF3 iS B3AUTiFUL:“ YUP!* its on her profile that she is goign to keep it.. i'm now starting to wounder if shes a foney..”

I think she just wanted a long thread! LOL!!!

Quoting majela:“ I think she just wanted a long thread! LOL!!!”

Agreed!
That or attention! LOL

Quoting majela:“ I think she just wanted a long thread! LOL!!!”

lol agree , and she got it

Quoting McLeary:“ honestly...and I may get crap for saying this...but I think this baby might be better off being put up ... [snip!] ... who can care for her or him...because between the mother and the father, this baby doesnt seem to be in for a good life ”

I think she should definitely give the baby up for adoption. I think that the baby would have a better life being adopted. She still has tons of growing up to do, especially since she believes this baby should save her life.

Quoting Mommy [Caitlin]:“ Okay. Here's the problem. If you read my profile it says that the baby daddy doesn't want to be in the ... [snip!] ... the right thing to do? or no? and why! Lady'splease help!Don't be shy to be blunt with me! I can take it! Thanks -Caitlin”

wow
i feel bad for you that the guy doesnt want any part of the baby!! reading your forum it look like to me that he was only thinking about himself......(i dont want maly to know).......you know stuff like that. 
so now you do need to think about what is best for the baby!!
you need to forget his feelings at this point. i know its hard but you need to do best for your baby.
when i got pregnant everyone was kinda shocked at first.....they didnt know what to say. but now everyone is telling me to give it up!! to me i just want to slap their faces!! if i was the one to bring it up and they agreed with me then ok. but the fact that i didnt say that and they were tell me to just give up my child i got really pissed! 
they told me i needed to think about whats best for the baby......which is true but i dont think thats the best thing in my situation!!

if your child would have a better life with someone else wouldnt you want them to have that?
there are so many programs with good familys!! just think about that little life growing in you

this is retarded . . if you planned this baby than you should have thought about all of this before . franky I don't feel bad for you at all.
Audree [my oldest daughter] saved my life, I can honestly say that I would be dead right now, or a long time ago if it wasn't for her, but I sure as hell didn't plan her. If I knew the problems I was going through [or admitted I had any problems] than I would have fixed them some other say other than having a child. Babies don't make things magically 'alright' . It's not this baby's duty to save your life, it's your own. This baby in your stomach is a human, not a quick fix for your life & trust me, your life isn't going to get any easier because you had a baby.

Quoting majela:“ I dont know what to say anymore... this is not her first pregnancy, her baby daddys 20 (statutory rape) ... [snip!] ... cuz ialready know that those mfers willput the bs on youtube and myspace! Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: both”

um. not satatory rape! parents know about him. they gave the approval and that's only 3 years. law is 4. and i'm of legal concent thanks.

Quoting Mommy [Caitlin]:“ um. not satatory rape! parents know about him. they gave the approval and that's only 3 years. law is 4. and i'm of legal concent thanks.”

LOL!
of course for no i have seen shit happen that the parents gave the older guy the okay and then when something happens like getting the girl preggo or something else they want to throw the guy in jail.. dont play that kid...

and the real law in the real word hunny is 5 yrs but you way too young for him thats how i feel.. hes grown you anit even of age you gone be anit home mean while he fucking other girls going clubing and drinking cause he is prolly already of age by now or come will be.

you relly need to get over yourself.

Quoting majela:“ I think she just wanted a long thread! LOL!!!”

LOL  

You have to keep in mind that your man may not always be there for you and that thats ok. It wont be easy but if you decide to keep the baby, do it for yourself and not because you think someone else is gunna help you or take care of you. Mine told me hed never leave my side too and in a month,other then my friends and family ill be a single mommy just like many other strong independent women  

Its easy for a guy to walk away but a girl has to live with her decision everyday, so just make one youll be happy with