Early pregnancy sign or miscarriage? Please offer advice!

Also, please do not tell me to go to the doctor...
I cannot because I'm pretty much sure that if my parents found out that I may be pregnant again then they will kick Austin and I out of their house, and we would have no where to go. I'm not going to put Austin through that.

I had sex, only with a condom, on July 25th.
Yesterday around 10 or 11 I started bleeding a tiny bit of brown colored blood. I only spotted in my underwear. It continued throughout the whole day. I thought it was a pregnancy sign because that's what happened with Austin - except I only spotted once with him.
Today I'm bleeding little black clots...
I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I can absolutely not go to the doctor, no friends to sneak off with or anything...
I just have to deal with the advice that all of you provide.
Btw, this has never happened to me before. My "period" is two weeks early right now, it never has been before, it's usually late.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ Also, please do not tell me to go to the doctor... I cannot because I'm pretty much sure that if my ... [snip!] ... this has never happened to me before. My "period" is two weeks early right now, it never has been before, it's usually late.”

Well, i know thats something you dont want to hear but if you are having a miscarriage you need to see your dr. something can seriously be wrong, they may need to look inside you to make sure everything is ok. You can go to the dr without your parents knowing about it. Health Departments are free ya know..

You can go to a free clinic if there is one nearby...

Go off your LMP and see if July 25th was around your ovulation time...

Quoting Criddle Ann:“ Well, i know thats something you dont want to hear but if you are having a miscarriage you need to see ... [snip!] ... make sure everything is ok. You can go to the dr without your parents knowing about it. Health Departments are free ya know..”

I knew I was going to hear it sooner or later...
And in the state of MO [or so my parents told me] a new law has been passed stating you cannot get a drivers liscense until you are the age of 18... So my parents are stuck taking me everywhere right now. It would be pretty obvious what I was up to.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ I knew I was going to hear it sooner or later... And in the state of MO [or so my parents told me] ... [snip!] ... you are the age of 18... So my parents are stuck taking me everywhere right now. It would be pretty obvious what I was up to.”

Then that's out of the question..

When was your last period..I will calculate it for you to see if you O'd around then..if so then it could be implantation

Quoting ♥Jess MHB©:“ Then that's out of the question.. When was your last period..I will calculate it for you to see if you O'd around then..if so then it could be implantation”

I never usually keep up with my period, but I do know that my period came to an end at least four days before I became sexually active again.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ I knew I was going to hear it sooner or later... And in the state of MO [or so my parents told me] ... [snip!] ... you are the age of 18... So my parents are stuck taking me everywhere right now. It would be pretty obvious what I was up to.”

Can't the bf take you to the doctors?

Quoting SimplyHeartbroken:“ Can't the bf take you to the doctors?”

That's a longgggg story. Basically, we rarely ever talk anymore unless it's work related.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ I knew I was going to hear it sooner or later... And in the state of MO [or so my parents told me] ... [snip!] ... you are the age of 18... So my parents are stuck taking me everywhere right now. It would be pretty obvious what I was up to.”

You may want to google driving laws in your state. I just did & it says you can get your permet at 15.5 & license at 16.

Also, you can take a bus to a clinic. It's better safe than sorry mama.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ I never usually keep up with my period, but I do know that my period came to an end at least four days before I became sexually active again.”

Okay you would ovulated typically on CD 15..which would be about a week after your period ended.

You should start keeping up with it too   They have a few cute tickers on lilypie.com (under trying to conceive) but you can just use it to keep track.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ Also, please do not tell me to go to the doctor... I cannot because I'm pretty much sure that if my ... [snip!] ... this has never happened to me before. My "period" is two weeks early right now, it never has been before, it's usually late.”

Wow....Seriously, not trying to piss you off. But you need to tell someone. I had 4 MC's and if you are having one, you need to see a dr....Its kinda selfish that you would do that. If you are pregnant, you'll need to see a dr. So you might wanna re think what your doing

Quoting micah ♥:“ You may want to google driving laws in your state. I just did & it says you can get your permet ... [snip!] ... can get your permet at 15.5 & license at 16. Also, you can take a bus to a clinic. It's better safe than sorry mama.”

I honestly didn't even think about a bus... I guess I'm just too freaked out about the whole thing.

I just decided to do something responsible, though. If this continues into tomorrow or gets worse before then I'm going to tell my Mom that I'm bleeding and that I feel uncomfortable in my own skin. I'm not going to tell her that I suspect myself to be pregnant.

If it stops I'll just buy a pregnancy test in at least a week.

Quoting PleatherHeart:“ Also, please do not tell me to go to the doctor... I cannot because I'm pretty much sure that if my ... [snip!] ... this has never happened to me before. My "period" is two weeks early right now, it never has been before, it's usually late.”

You need to see a doctor, as I'm sure you're realizing. Miscarrying can be deadly- IF not medically monitered and treated. I miscarried and luckily didn't need D&C or anything ... but you should get checked out.

Quoting Proud Wife&Mommy 2 Be:“ Wow....Seriously, not trying to piss you off. But you need to tell someone. I had 4 MC's and if you ... [snip!] ... kinda selfish that you would do that. If you are pregnant, you'll need to see a dr. So you might wanna re think what your doing”

I understand where you're coming from, but try understanding my side of the story. I do not want to get kicked out of my house because that would leave my son and I homeless... And I am not about to do that to him.

But I'm sure that we'll figure out the mystery behind this tomorrow unless it gets worse between now and then.

Thank you for your advice.

If you didn't have sex (25th of July) until 4 days after your period (21st of July) endedyour period most likely if I had to guess started on the 17th - ish (making your period 4 days long). That would make a probable conception date of the 31st give or take.