y is it the stupidest things get u upset????

stupid me sitting here thinking how far along id be n just realised i would of been nearly 30 weeks now. n it mad me cry i do it all the time just at stupid things.like holding any1s baby does it to me n seeing my friends that are pregnantdoes it to. i thought i was getting beter with dealing with it but im not. does any1 esle do the same?? or do silly things get u thinking???

I don't think any of that is stupid. It just takes time to heal and you went through something that is so sad and heartbreaking. I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

Not stupid at all.  You're still grieving and will be for a while.  It's good that you can talk about it and express the way you feel.  Keep doing it, it will help.  I'm so sorry about your loss.

This coming Saturday my baby would been 3 years old but I miscarried while in highschool. For me it hasn't gotten a whole lot easier, especially around the holidays it is really hard.
But I am sorry for your loss

It's not stupid at all. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it will at least get a bit easier for you one day.

i miss my boy so much i just wish he was still here with us.... thank u all though.. i do feel silly at times though just the littleset things set me off n my partner is now telling me that i should be putting on a front like everyone else is... i cant do it anymore the hurt is still very much there

Quoting cherie86:“ i miss my boy so much i just wish he was still here with us.... thank u all though.. i do feel silly ... [snip!] ... telling me that i should be putting on a front like everyone else is... i cant do it anymore the hurt is still very much there”

Im sooo sorry for your loss, and you do NOT need to put on a front for anyone!! its only been 2 months. my cousin's 8 month old son was murdered in march and she still has many days where she just breaks down. if you keep it all inside it will eventually make you bitter and you need to be happy for your daughter. grieve as much as you need to, things will get easier with time.

Quoting cherie86:“ stupid me sitting here thinking how far along id be n just realised i would of been nearly 30 weeks now. ... [snip!] ... thought i was getting beter with dealing with it but im not. does any1 esle do the same?? or do silly things get u thinking???”

I'm so sorry.

I'd be 27.5 weeks now. I do it all the time. Every friday another week ticks by in my head. Every week I think about what I'm missing. I thought I was doing just fine, but every once in a while I just can't hold it together anymore. You're not alone hon! Hope things get easier for you!

And any person who tells you to get over it or pretend to get over it isnt being nearly as supportive as they should! Grieve your own way, its the only way to do it. You can't grieve by anyone else's standards and hope to heal.

I miscarried nearly four months ago and I get that "why isn't she over it yet" look and hear "you were only 12 weeks" and all kinds of other stuff. All of it only makes it harder. Ignore what everyone else says or thinks and do this the way you need to do it! Hope you find a way to heal!

Quoting cherie86:“ stupid me sitting here thinking how far along id be n just realised i would of been nearly 30 weeks now. ... [snip!] ... thought i was getting beter with dealing with it but im not. does any1 esle do the same?? or do silly things get u thinking???”

oh honey, I am really sorry for your loss! =(

Quoting cherie86:“ stupid me sitting here thinking how far along id be n just realised i would of been nearly 30 weeks now. ... [snip!] ... thought i was getting beter with dealing with it but im not. does any1 esle do the same?? or do silly things get u thinking???”

I am exactly the same mate. Its been 5 months and everywhere i go little things affect me. Everyone keeps telling me that it gets easier but id like to know when myself. Just remember you are not alone. xxxx