what to do???? help

i have a 4yr old little girl anyway she goes to her fathers parents as court ordered coz he cant b bothered seeing her but thats not the problem at the moment. she is coming home doing things that a 4yr old shouldnt do and when i ask her where she got it from she says her grandma (fathers mum). and apparently when she is out there she does things as well n says that she sees me and my partner doing things. i know that i have never done anything like that in front of my little girl i dont know what to do or how to stop her from doing these things. her fathers parents have been at me from the day that i broke up with her father saying that i was unfit and that i was doing things in front of her that i shouldnt... i cant even believe that they think i would ever do anything like that. what do i do i need help

Well obviously this is something that has to be looked into.

I recommend seeking advice from a licensed professional, or two even, a lawyer and a psychiatrist.

You really shouldn't put this off.

Quoting Tasha^Nika:“ Well obviously this is something that has to be looked into. I recommend seeking advice from a licensed professional, or two even, a lawyer and a psychiatrist. You really shouldn't put this off.”

she went through a stage of sneeking into the loung room in the middle of the night and watching late night tv which has all those adds 4 adalt survices n stuff i dont know if she has got it from there. the thing that scares me is that she wil lie about what she has said coz she never tells me the truth about things she does and she is telling them a lie by saying she has seen me doing things and i know 4 sure she has never seen that from me

i have even seen her trying to do things with her toys. its getting that bad. ive tried to explain that little girls dont do them things and that it is wrong. im just really scared where she is getting it from

idk. If she tells you she sees you doing these things & you are clearly not then someone is putting it in her head.This little girlwas molested @ 3yrs & told her mom it was her grandpa. She hated her dad after that & wanted him to suffer for what he did. He died while they were on bad terms & she (mom) died a year after. well the little girl is now 8 & recently told a counciler at school it was her uncle (that lived w her) that did it & was still molesting her. He is in prison now. BASTARD!!!! He trained her to say it was someone else & broke a close family apart. Watch out & I hope your situation gets better.

put a block on your tv and maybe she is telling the truth and they are making up that she said these things. It is from them take her to a counselor and try to get their visitation supervised

Quoting cherie86:“ i have even seen her trying to do things with her toys. its getting that bad. ive tried to explain that ... [snip!] ... tried to explain that little girls dont do them things and that it is wrong. im just really scared where she is getting it from”

take her to a DR and get her examined then get her a therapist and get her away from these people

Quoting tana_lynn1:“ put a block on your tv and maybe she is telling the truth and they are making up that she said these things. It is from them take her to a counselor and try to get their visitation supervised”

This is a great idea. Its so hard raiseing a daughter, you dont know who you can trust these days.

thanks heaps i think counciling might be a good option. i just dont want her to be getting hurt by anyone she is a inacent little girl i couldnt live with knowing that someone is hurting her. i didnt mention b4 that she has fortnightly visitation with them every second weekend for 4 nights.

Quoting tana_lynn1:“ take her to a DR and get her examined then get her a therapist and get her away from these people”

sorry to do this again but i second that! This is a must

Quoting tana_lynn1:“ take her to a DR and get her examined then get her a therapist and get her away from these people”

ive had her examined b4 coz i thought something was happening but he said she was so called intact. and that if i noticed bleeding take her to the emergancy room

I have a 7 year old and I put a cell phone on her on silent where if something goes wrong she can call me and noone knows she has the phone. I also go to the court house and check the parents arrest record before I left them take my daughter to their house. I don't wanna see what they are convicted of I wanna know what they were arrested for. I think I may be crazy but out of all the girls I know only 3 have not been molested or raped

Quoting tana_lynn1:“ I have a 7 year old and I put a cell phone on her on silent where if something goes wrong she can call ... [snip!] ... know what they were arrested for. I think I may be crazy but out of all the girls I know only 3 have not been molested or raped”

wow thats alot... ill try and get her into counciling and see if she says anything to them. i have now hidden the remote for the tv (she doesnt yet know how to turn it on at the tv) and she has been playing up something shocking as well maybe it is alarm bells ringing not just me being silly

Quoting cherie86:“ wow thats alot... ill try and get her into counciling and see if she says anything to them. i have now ... [snip!] ... it on at the tv) and she has been playing up something shocking as well maybe it is alarm bells ringing not just me being silly”

This is true, if you have a bad feeling ALWAYS look into it