anal sex =x
515 postsposted 11th Aug
ok so im wondering if anyone has had this problem.... my b/f likes anal sex once in a wile ... i wouldnt mind it if it didnt hurt so much but the problem is that when he does try it dosnt work like it wont go in ... he tells me its me not letting it go in like im not relaxed , i tell him thati am relaxed the pain is im assuming from b/c we have actually only gotten it in like twice in 2 years lol ... we use lube and lots of it all different kinds ... so has anyone else had this problem where it just wont go in ? lol i feel funny about askin ppl this but maybe i could get some advice b/c i do want to do it and have it be comfortable ... any technics or lubes that worked for u anything would be helpfull .... thanx
quoteI have 1 child & live in New Brunswick, New Jersey
1128 postsposted 11th Aug
ok tmi, but this comes from my homosexual friend who well would know some tips * ya know what I mean*
he said you be on your back, NOT on top or dog style.....lots of non water based lube, NON water based.
and most of all BREATHE.
thats what he said.
quotehe said you be on your back, NOT on top or dog style.....lots of non water based lube, NON water based.
and most of all BREATHE.
thats what he said.
I live in Upland, California
posted 11th Aug
you know, personally, I think this is something we just do for men, and frankly if it won't go in, its for a reason.
quoteI live in Laguna Niguel, California
1313 postsposted 11th Aug
hmm i have never heard of that... i just realax and consentrte on something totally unrelated and its just fine
quoteI have 1 child & live in Auburn, Maine
3364 postsposted 11th Aug
anal-ease. it relaxes it and tell him to be easy that area can hurt and tear easy
quoteI'm due January 15th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Texas
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916 postsposted 11th Aug
He either sticks his finger in first or we use an ass plug to get it loosed up a bit first and TONS of lube! LOL
quoteI have 1 child & live in Miami, Florida
1359 postsposted 11th Aug
lay on your back an use alot of lube like ky intrigue..but also make sure you are really turned on..maybe have some good frisky regular sex for a lil big that seems to make pain not soo painful lol
quoteI'm due February 28th, have 1 angel baby & live in Glendale, Arizona
14127 postsposted 11th Aug
Quoting babydoll.:“ Nope. Gross.”
Ditto.
*Clings to the next person who cries at the thought*
I have 2 kids & live in Berwick, Pennsylvania
2955 postsposted 11th Aug
After awhile I just got used to it. lol..Lots and lots of wetness helps it in and yes you do somewhat need to relax too. I actually dont mind it to much at all anymore. My boyfriend loves it to! Lately I havent been letting him though because I havent been in the right mood to get F***ed in the ass.
quoteI have 1 child & live in California
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5340 postsposted 11th Aug
Quoting babydoll.:“ Nope. Gross.”
I have 1 child & live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
posted 11th Aug
Quoting qdhilton88 [HBC]:“ After awhile I just got used to it. lol..Lots and lots of wetness helps it in and yes you do somewhat ... [snip!] ... loves it to! Lately I havent been letting him though because I havent been in the right mood to get F***ed in the ass.”
classy.
I live in Upland, California
posted 11th Aug
Quoting qdhilton88 [HBC]:“ After awhile I just got used to it. lol..Lots and lots of wetness helps it in and yes you do somewhat ... [snip!] ... loves it to! Lately I havent been letting him though because I havent been in the right mood to get F***ed in the ass.”yeah it seems to be kinda hard for me to get into the mood to get fucked in the ass lol.. i don mind it as much anymore either even tho iv only done it like 5 times an the first time was like 5 months ago
I'm due February 28th, have 1 angel baby & live in Glendale, Arizona
6448 postsposted 11th Aug
Quoting Momzi:“ you know, personally, I think this is something we just do for men, and frankly if it won't go in, its for a reason.”
Agreed.
Different strokes for different folks, I guess, but this is NOT for me.
I'm due April 20th (a girl), have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Pennsylvania
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