[vent] out of control!

this is kinda long but worth it. I really need advice ;; so here's some background...in my household lives my mom, me, and my sister Kaleigh..my dad works in Wisconsin because there are no jobs in Cleveland for his trade...until this summer we've had no problems.

In the beginning of summer, my sister began to hang around with three girls named Courtney- 13, Ally-10 and Kaitlin-13. All of which are allowed to smoke cigs, they smoke weed,and Kaitlinhas unprotected sex in public places, and NONE of their parents even care. Earlier this summer, she let some boys into our house who stole my camera that I bought for my birthday, and theyhave absolutely no respect for our house or my family.She is beginning to smoke because of these girls peer pressuring her.Her friends got caught stealing at Rite Aid and have to pay $300 each, and Kaleigh stole over $400 dollars worth of stuff from Macy's and got caught. She bringd her friends over and they eat ALL of our food and just help themselves. She's beginning to steal from my mother and I to feed her friends during the day, her friends are stealing my clothes as well as my moms shoes, and perfume. They sneak out of my house at 1 AM and then end up getting caught. THEY COULD GET ABDUCTED OR RAPED! OR KILLED! Does my sister care? No! As long as she has friends its ok! And my mom feels sorry for Kaleigh because she is overweight and she always plays the "I HAVE NO FRIENDS!" card on her. She is beginning to show disrespect to my uncles and cousins and the other day she was going to fight me over!! My mom is a sucker, but I cant handle this stress anymore...she is 11 years old and running this house!!! Im thinking of telling my dad that he really needs to come home because she is just getting out of control.................

ugh.

yes her and her friends most def need a reality check!

they need a good butt kickin if you ask me...

it wouldnt solve anything but hey   they need some involved parents

It sounds like she needs some parent to take control.. I agree she could get hurt or worse!!! She is definitely headed down the wrong path and is going to end up in jail or worse!

Quoting James Mama:“ It sounds like she needs some parent to take control.. I agree she could get hurt or worse!!! She is definitely headed down the wrong path and is going to end up in jail or worse!”

thats what I say....my mom tries, but she's a pushover and doesnt want to see the truth because its "her baby"..........

im seriously considering asking my dad to come home for awhile...she needs a Friend-Detox

you really should call your dad. Your sister will be pissed but maybe he doesnt have to mention that you called him.

you got alot going on with your sister... she needs to be controled before its too late.. she messing with the wrong group of girls andher friend so young having sex in public i bet its with older boys too...
maybe your dad needs to come home for a weekend or something

how does you mom feel??

i had the SAME issue when i was in 5th up to 10th grade. there were these assholes, K.C. and Sam, they would come to my house EVERY day and steal my parents cigg's, money, electronice,
everything they could get their grubby hands on.
They would smoke weed in my house b4 my parents would get home and leave me with the clean-up
They peer-pressured me into doing things i normally wouldn't.,

My parents finally got wind of the situation and i played the "i don't have any friends" card on her too.
They destroyed my life, and got me in so much trouble. And no one could convince me they were shit,
i had to find out for my own. It was a tough situation,
Your sister needs to get a serious dose of the real world to scare her str8 before something bad happens to her.
These girls will never stand up for her.
They will never be her friends

and a 10 yr old smoking she just learned how to clean her ass...

Quoting [morgan]:“ this is kinda long but worth it. I really need advice ;; so here's some background...in my household ... [snip!] ... of telling my dad that he really needs to come home because she is just getting out of control................. ugh.”

so my sisters friends is 13 and her friends drinks, dope ect, and in may we all went camping and the 13 year old got so drunk she didnt know if she had gotten raped or not. she was nakid when she woke up and only members parts of the night, so they took her to the hospital. she wasn't raped but sexualy assulted. last week she got caught for steelin and this week she has to go to court for car hoppin before she met these friends she was nothing like this. sorry about my spelling

Quoting LESBIAN & PREGNANT =):“ you got alot going on with your sister... she needs to be controled before its too late.. she messing ... [snip!] ... public i bet its with older boys too... maybe your dad needs to come home for a weekend or something how does you mom feel??”

my mom feels defeated. she tries her best but Kaleigh just over rules her or walks out the door. the other bad thing is my mom just feels bad for everyone....she thinks she can be these girls' guidance...i doubt it. Butwe have a family reunion we're going to in 2 weeks....maybe that will do her some good =\

her friends dont stick up for her as it is, they lie to her and everything, and she just doesnt get it. They are already ruining her life and she doesnt understand!

out here where i live they have a program its a scare program and you call them and they are cops they will follow her and take her in for any little thing just to scare her to see if it helps.. of course they will contact your mom...
they take them down to the priecint keep them in a cell of course not with general population and she how the act and they will talk to them and tell them those are consequences they can face....

Quoting [morgan]:“ my mom feels defeated. she tries her best but Kaleigh just over rules her or walks out the door. the ... [snip!] ... it is, they lie to her and everything, and she just doesnt get it. They are already ruining her life and she doesnt understand!”

you mom needs to put her foot down before its too late...
i hope your sis is not out there having sex too....

idk...i dont think so...i just cant picture my sister doing that, but who knows what the heck she's doing nowadays....

i was talking some sense into her friend [well TRYING to] one day;; because this 13 year old Kaitlin is having unprotected publicsex with my ex-friend Chris who is going on 18...she broughtto my house a pregnancy test one day while I was at work[and OBVIOUSLY she didnt use it rite because there was like no liquid on the stick] so I took it after I got off workwhile her and my sister were stillout, peed on it-of course it came out positive- and then asked her about it later. Her face was stunned and she cried for about an hour saying "Im going to kick his a--!" and then finally I told her what I had done. We talked about it after. It didnt seem to have much effect........  i tried.

[off topic but interesting lol]

first off thats illegal for him to have sex with her .. she 13 yrs old and o god she thought she was pregnant...