bad night. [vent]

so I moved up to San Diego a couple of days ago. Well I live in a apartment complex & the people to the left, we started off kinda bad and now they are really cool. BUT on the right it's this girl and her mom. Well they came over to say hi to Josh & I. So I thought that was nice, so I invited them in. Well the first thing the mom says is "Oh your pregnant how old are you again"? I was like "uhh I am 18". She says "Oh well I take it this is the dad how old are you". He said " No I'm not, but I am 20. Soo the night goes on I already thought of her as nosey & then we were talking about school and what not then she throws in there Oh so who is the dad? I'M sorry but I think that's inapprpiate to even start off by asking because she was all serious. I said my ex boyfriend she says 'WELL ISN'T THAT TRASHY/SLUTTY to date a guy who isn't the father of your child. I was like okay bitch get out. She said YOU need help by GOD.  WTF So i don't really like my apartment anymore.

To top it off so far this is my second night and everyone around me is SO loud. WTF I need some sleep. But I did go apply for 10 jobs!!   Exicited much.

&& another thing about tonight Matt has been calling me non stop for like 2 hrs. I'm so annoyed I don't even know. I just want to change my number, he's such an asshole.

But Madison is kicking so much tonight & it's hurting. When it hurts in my Rib Cage what does that mean? & I am like cramping all over. I'm in so much pain I can't even get up.

HOPE EVERYONE'S NIGHT IS BETTER THEN MINE. 

taylorcarson

EW, your giving San Diego a bad name Taylor..lmao hahaJK but ew that's gay

Lol what a bitch.... but hey at least you dont have to hold cornyconversations with her when u see her....

Quoting kellyc:“ EW, your giving San Diego a bad name Taylor..lmao hahaJK but ew that's gay”

LMAO no just Mesa San Diego! I love everything else, just not hoome!!   it's okay I'll just come to your house. hahah jk.

Quoting .:Mary:.:“ Lol what a bitch.... but hey at least you dont have to hold cornyconversations with her when u see her....”

Yeah like an hour afterwards I went to my car & I saw her, she gave me a dirty look I wanted to flip her off. I won't be holding any conversations LOl

Quoting **TAYLOR**:“ LMAO no just Mesa San Diego! I love everything else, just not hoome!!   it's okay I'll just come to your house. hahah jk.”

Girlfriend..Mesa SD doesn't exist lol I'm pretty sure you live in Clairemont..or SERRA MESA? IDK wewill figure it out Tuesday lmao

Quoting **TAYLOR**:“ Yeah like an hour afterwards I went to my car & I saw her, she gave me a dirty look I wanted to flip her off. I won't be holding any conversations LOl”

Haha I would do a wierd little dance and rub my belly... I did it to my uncle when he called me a whore

Quoting kellyc:“ Girlfriend..Mesa SD doesn't exist lol I'm pretty sure you live in Clairemont..or SERRA MESA? IDK wewill figure it out Tuesday lmao”

Welll I live off Clairemonte Dr. Sooo Probably hahaha. I willl like go outside, you can ttrack me. I can't waittt!!!!!!

Quoting .:Mary:.:“ Haha I would do a wierd little dance and rub my belly... I did it to my uncle when he called me a whore”

LMAO that would be funnny. She's such a weirdo. OHH & she said she doesn't want her daughter around me. LMAOOO

Quoting **TAYLOR**:“ LMAO that would be funnny. She's such a weirdo. OHH & she said she doesn't want her daughter around me. LMAOOO”

Yup because pregnancy is a contageous disease.

Quoting .:Mary:.:“ Yup because pregnancy is a contageous disease.”

Yeah if we shake hands she might get pregg. AHH Lol.
No she said "because i'm a bad influence. HAhA

Who cares who you're dating as long as you're looking after yourself & the baby & he treats you good. What a mole. Sadly, you'll get the stares & the shit talk about being so young & blah blah almost everywhere you go.

Don't even sweat it, don't feed into peoples drama just go about your life doing what you do & prove them wrong. That's the best revenge!

Quoting I ♥ my Ryanor.:“ Who cares who you're dating as long as you're looking after yourself & the baby & he treats you ... [snip!] ... it, don't feed into peoples drama just go about your life doing what you do & prove them wrong. That's the best revenge!”

Yeah it just made me so mad. I don't understand why some people judge so easily about my age. It's like what the hell you know. I SHOULD be used to it, it happens a lot. He does treat me good & she doesn't know me.

So annoying, but thanksss<3

Hi there...
Just reading this annoyed me so much. What business of hers is it HOW old either of you are, or that you're not with the father of your child? One of my bestfriends met a man when she was pregnant, who she JUST married. Let's just say her ex husband was an abusive asshole, and Daddy #2 is more of a father to her kids than her ex ever has been. She's ALOT happier too.
Plus, so long as you're not 14, thinking popping out a baby is "cute", age shouldn't factor into your being a parent. I was 18 when I had my first son, and I think it has made me a better mother. I'm young so I can play with my kids alot more than some of the older mothers I know.

People, especially older people, tend to think that because they're older and have experienced more, that equates to them being right about everything. You really ought to just tell her to mind her own business... or better yet, ask her where HER daughter's father is. Oh, and being a christian myself, (thou I don't recall the EXACT passage) Jesus says, "Let he without sin cast the first stone." and to my knowledge, the ONLY being with the right to judge me (or you) is the Lord God himself. IE: Shut your mouth lady, because you're not God. ;)