what to do-

I basically took my bfs virginity. i got pregnant 2 months of being with him. he is the type who never talks about other girls. or never flirts. doesnt watch porn isnt perverted. hes a sensitive guy. we been together a year and everyhting has been the same. untila month ago i find a convo he had with a girl he was saying he wanted to do "things" to her. well at first he denied it. then i asked if there was more. he said no the next day i find blocked a girl on his messenger. i asked her and she said he told her he wanted to have sex with her. basically he lies. and he says he was just bored. he says it wasnt cyber sex he claims he will change. but he doesnt to have sex unless i provoke it. i dont know whats worng with me. i need advice

There's nothing wrong with you.  It's him.  You should sit down and talk with him and see what you guys need to do together to make each other happy.  It can't be all about you or all about him.  It has to be 50/50 or it isn't worth it.

Quoting mander..:“ I basically took my bfs virginity. i got pregnant 2 months of being with him. he is the type who never ... [snip!] ... sex he claims he will change. but he doesnt to have sex unless i provoke it. i dont know whats worng with me. i need advice”

are you sure he was a virgin? I mean he gave it up after only a month or two?
sounds very fishy

Imo I don’t think its you. It is him and if he has been with you from the beginning he is probably wanting to see what its like to be with someone else. . . I was like that. . . do something freaky that you normally wouldn’t do. Well not freaky just something you wouldn’t normally do

Quoting mander..:“ I basically took my bfs virginity. i got pregnant 2 months of being with him. he is the type who never ... [snip!] ... sex he claims he will change. but he doesnt to have sex unless i provoke it. i dont know whats worng with me. i need advice”

why does your profile say you been together 3 years

Quoting {BBB}Ms.Melody!BOOBS!:“ are you sure he was a virgin? I mean he gave it up after only a month or two? sounds very fishy”

My boyfriend was 25 when I took his virginity and we only went on one date! But yes, it does sound fishy. With a baby on the way "flirting" should be the furthest thing from his mind. Besides that the girl could have made alot more out of it then it was, alot of girls like drama regardless of who it hurts.
and to the OP you didnt do anything to provoke this. You have been faithful so try not to beat yourself up.

Quoting {BBB}Ms.Melody!BOOBS!:“ are you sure he was a virgin? I mean he gave it up after only a month or two? sounds very fishy”

mine was and it only took him 2 months ...

he is young huh?

You do ALOT of changing from about 18-25! he is likely still learning who he is!

sorry mama.

Quoting Jenn&Pete:“ mine was and it only took him 2 months ...”

well the virginity i took was also when he took mine.. but we were young and didnt really care about virginity at the time.. idk but if i was saving myself for many years.. i wouldnt just give it up quick like that

Quoting mander..:“ I basically took my bfs virginity. i got pregnant 2 months of being with him. he is the type who never ... [snip!] ... sex he claims he will change. but he doesnt to have sex unless i provoke it. i dont know whats worng with me. i need advice”

omg girl its funny how i find girls who are goin thruogh the same thing i am ive been with this boy for two years and he was just like you explained but i guess after being with me and all that i guess he got curious off other girls and he dont want the same thing 4 the rest of his life so am heart broken right now he denies it but i know it so idk but i know his curious of other girls so i know he will cheat on me if he hasnt already =[ so i really feel you and is super painful

Quoting ||Adriana.||:“ omg girl its funny how i find girls who are goin thruogh the same thing i am ive been with this boy for ... [snip!] ... know his curious of other girls so i know he will cheat on me if he hasnt already =[ so i really feel you and is super painful”

aww. im sorry.
i think i need to tell him we need a break. maybe time apart will show him how much i mean to him. if he tries the stuff he pulled again. ill know what i need to do.

Quoting mander..:“ aww. im sorry. i think i need to tell him we need a break. maybe time apart will show him how much i mean to him. if he tries the stuff he pulled again. ill know what i need to do.”

damn i dont hink you should do that i did that i went on a brake and when i got back with him he changed soooo much its so hard to explain but this type of guys u have to keep theminterested really bad cause remember youre the only thing he has felt and experienced so they are really wondering how other girls feel so once you let him try he might not come back and if he does may be not the same ive been through this struggle through my whole pregnancy and its sooooooo hard to think he might cheat on you in any minute

well wehn i said practicaally i meant this. when he was 16 his ex pressured him and he almost had sex with her. he penetrated [lol] but they ddint do it. he basically stuck it in and pulled out. he didnt feell what it was like to have sex thats why i said practically lol.
and i think we need a break bc we are always togetehr evryday. all day

Quoting mander..:“ well wehn i said practicaally i meant this. when he was 16 his ex pressured him and he almost had sex ... [snip!] ... was like to have sex thats why i said practically lol. and i think we need a break bc we are always togetehr evryday. all day”

well okis you do what ever u think is best =] and good luck mama

Quoting ||Adriana.||:“ well okis you do what ever u think is best =] and good luck mama”

thanks girl.
good luck to you too.
are you and the daddy living together?