akward or what!

So today, i was walking home from the post office, and i thought id stop at the irving and get some bananas, cause theyre a lot cheaper there.. so i got my bananas, and went to pay for them, standing at the cash register isthe father of my child (i dont talk to him by the way, everytime i do he ends up calling me something, likea FAT slut..) he looks at my belly looks at me and starts crying, i dont know why he did that, but i was really shocked do i just put the bananas down and left.. i dont know if hes just realizing what he did to me and whats really going on, or what but im kinda curious as to why he cried..   oh well, i guess im going to have to keep wondering, i dont think i could possibly talk to him after all the things we have been through and all the things he has said to me

I would just talk to him and ask why he did that.

maybe he cried cause he wanted the bananas

no but seriously he probably did realize it i wonder why he didnt say anything

You should talk to him, he is the father of your child.

I would have stood there until he was done and just asked him why...he might not have explained but hey he might have lol...

just stay strong and ignore it if u have been without him then dont go back my boys dad always put on the crying act and i always went back i wasted 6 years cause he was the dad blah blah blah its called sperm donor when they could care less lol but i got strong and left him with my 2 kids now im married and on child num 3   never look back sweetie its best for u and baby

Quoting candacee!:“ So today, i was walking home from the post office, and i thought id stop at the irving and get some bananas, ... [snip!] ... i dont think i could possibly talk to him after all the things we have been through and all the things he has said to me”

I bet he feels bad Good he deserves it!

maybe he feels guilty because he knows thats his baby and he left....

I would have told him to stop being such a wussy and thrown a banana at his head.  

Quoting Karina.:“ You should talk to him, he is the father of your child.”

Thats what I was thinking. At least for the child's sake!

Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP~2WW:“ Thats what I was thinking. At least for the child's sake!”

Exactly, put the baby first. I understand you guys have been through problems, but you need to get past that fot the good of your child (IMO).

Quoting jnazmom:“ I would have told him to stop being such a wussy and thrown a banana at his head.  ”

This mental picture made me giggle for some reason! But OP if it is really going to bother you then talk to him but if you feel its best not do don't talk to him. Just go with your heart you know best!

Quoting jnazmom:“ I would have told him to stop being such a wussy and thrown a banana at his head.  ”

lmao..... I would have done the same thing 

Quoting Karina.:“ Exactly, put the baby first. I understand you guys have been through problems, but you need to get past that fot the good of your child (IMO).”

Coming from a child who didnt have a father from the ages of 5 to 27... I NOW understand the need of a father in a womans life.
My father was a dead beat alcoholic. It took me this long to find the strength to forgive him. I'm not sure what made me do it. But I did.....and I think it's terrible when a child is not allowed to see their father for certain reasons. Who are you to make that decision as to weather or not a child wants their father in their life?
Now, there are certain times where I wouldnt want him in my life nor would I want the father of any children I have in their lives. If he started drinking again, beat me or the children or raped me.

Quoting ~Terra~ CowgirlUP~2WW:“ Thats what I was thinking. At least for the child's sake!”

Well, i would love to do it again.. but ive been down that road with him over and over and over again, for him, he just does what he wants to do when he wants to do, he has a lot of growing up to do,i know i do for sure, but at least i know now that the things i do choices i make are not only for me but for my child, one day he wants to be a part of her life, and another hes not even that dad?.. well, if he is doing that now, whats going to stop him from doing it after shes here, i personally think it would be better if i just didnt have him come around, its not like she wont know who her daddy is. ill make sure when shes old enough to understand, that she will know everything.. deep down in my heart, if i could have it my way, he would be here right now, helping me prepare for our child but it doesnt always happen that way, and in the end something good is going to come out of this i know it   ..