Rawr. *vent*

So basically the last 2 weeks have been so ridiculously retarded it's unreal. Let's start from the beginning. I have lived with my bf at his mom's place for about.. 3 1/2 months or so (as a result of my parents kicking my bf out of my house) However we are not the only ones who live here with her. His older sister and her husband also live here and they have a baby also (who was mysteriously concieved around the time they found out we were having my son even though they wanted nothing to do with kids in the past.. get the picture?). They are the messiest laziest people I have ever met.. the house is a mess of dog hair (for THEIR dogs) all over the place that never gets vacuumed up and trash that just gets left where it stands. The first month I lived here I didn't really do tooooo too much just because I was still getting settled in and I really didn't know how things were done (like where the dishes go ect.. ) I would take out the trash on occasion. Finally I started to notice how completely disgusting everything was and began to clean the kitchen (like do the dishes, take out trash, throw things away that were left on the counter, and organize everything.) I noticed that they were taking advantage of this because I would come home at night to see trash from their fast food just sitting on the counter and an overflowing trashcan (which I would purposely leave that way to see if anyone else would get off their lazy ass and take it out.. but that never happened.) The only thing in there that I didn't clean was the table because it had a whole crap load of their junk on it that wasn't my buisness to mess with.

My bf's mom was greatful that I cleaned everything and would tell me all the time how nice it looked. I appreciated that. But his sister and her husband on the other hand.. never said as much as a thank you and didn't even make an attempt to keep it clean. (frustrating.. no??)

So like 2 weeks ago the husband comes in and says "go put the dishes away we need to give our kid a bath" I'm thinking to myslef... are you joking??? are you honestly THAT lazy?? (mind you they had been sitting in the living room all day watching tv and I was heping my bf's mom with something.) So I am just fuming.. Later on that nightmy bf washes off my sons tray from his high chair and has no where to put it so he lays it by their daughters bottles and stuff. His sister sees this and FLIPS SH*T. I have never seen anyone go so crazy over something so insignificant in my life. Her and my bf get in this huuuuuge argument and she proceeds to say "you two don't do anything in this house.. and that's why we don't do anything around here anymore." And she went on and on and on about how we do "nothing". Now everyone at this house is in a huge fight. The husband tried to be bad ass and cut the cable for the internet in our room and give us the electric bill a day before it was to be shut off (which is like 500 bucks PAST DUE) Well he totally b*tched out the next day and took the bills back but still it is just ridiculous.

So things have been tense here for like 2 weeks now. They act like they own the f*cking house (kitchen and living room) so we don't even like to go out there anymore. My bf's mom doesn't even want to go out there anymore so we all pretty much stay confined to our rooms or just get out of the house.

This morning at f*cking 7:30 am they come pounding at the door (waking me up) saying that the AC is on and to shut the window. Honestly... who in their right mind turns the AC on at 7:30am when it is still about 70 degrees outside??????? And on top of it.. our room does not cool down unless the window is open I am not going to sit in there and suffocate because they are stupid. Not to mention the fact that my son sleeps in our room and they about woke him up.. I was pissed.

So anyways I just needed to vent. I hate stupid people.

How fucking rude!

Excuse my language.

That sucks...I can't stand lazy, nasty people. They need to clean up their crap. I would have already blown my top, esp when they started saying that you don't do anything. What dumbbutts...

Hah thank you.. I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this!

o god no i couldnt leave with people like that cause someone would have to call an ambulance cause im whipping sum A-S-S..
she got some nerve and thats the mil house so her rules.. they would need to leave for causing all those problems..

do they even pay rent?

wow, thats BS, why dosent your bf's mother say something to them??

Ugh! I HATE people like that! Trust me, I know how you feel though I go through the same thing. Our house is FILTHY because my sister refuses to clean up after herself and he daughter and my mom has MS so she can only do so much at a time so I'm left to be the one that cleans. It sucks I know but I would just tell them off and stop cleaning up after them, just yourself, and if the husband TELLS you to do something again tell him to get his lazy ass up and do it him self!!!

Quoting We're getting closer..!:“ How fucking rude! Excuse my language.”

Oh did I mention that they also said that we are "so inconsiderate" even though the husband smokes with the back door open so it goes into the house with 2 babies in it? and he has smoked right in front of my son (who possibly has asthma) and his daughter when they have been playing outside before. We have literally grabbed my son and just walked inside because of it.

Quoting LESBIAN & PREGNANT =):“ o god no i couldnt leave with people like that cause someone would have to call an ambulance cause im ... [snip!] ... nerve and thats the mil house so her rules.. they would need to leave for causing all those problems.. do they even pay rent?”

Not rent.. just the bills. Which they run up.

Sounds like my SIL. After DF and I moved out, my MIL had to get my friend to clean the house otherwise it wouldt get done.

Quoting jaela's mommy!!:“ wow, thats BS, why dosent your bf's mother say something to them??”

She never did before.. but shes starting to realize how they are disrespecting her and her family and her house.. I honestly think shes been scared of them.. but she's coming around.

Quoting Mary [is getting MARRIED]:“ Sounds like my SIL. After DF and I moved out, my MIL had to get my friend to clean the house otherwise it wouldt get done.”

it's just sooooo retarded. it's affecting mine and my bf's relationship and my son and uuugh. it's annoying

f*uck id be so pissed
move out of there dude
what does your bfs mom say about this?

Quoting xx-Bella-xx:“ f*uck id be so pissed move out of there dude what does your bfs mom say about this?”

We can't move out because my bf doesn't have a good enough job yet. She is pissed because they were saying I don't do anything which I do. "supposedly" she doesn't want them to live here anymore but shes going to wait until my bf gets a better job so that we can afford to pay most of the bills. (this is what my bf says though I hope it's true) I mean c'mon its pathetic when youre over 30 living at your moms house and still manage to go bankrupt. Haha sadly enough they brag about bankruptcy..

I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. sorry for the caps but i thought i was the only one. how it starts, i moved outa my parents to my bf, big mistake. there house is so old which i dont mind but theres cat shit everywhere dog hair all over the floor, dirt everywhere and the house is shifting and our bedroom had huge holes and cracks in it tot he outside. when your useing the bathroom they just barg in weather its locked or not. and on top of it this is a 4 bedroom house which has his older brother, his younger brother, his mom and dad, his sister her son and her husband plus my bf and i and his sister is having a nother one. LIKE WTF who lives like this, theres no bed rooms for some so we had his older brother whos 30! sleeping on our couch, im use to a clean house. so my bf and i each pay 200 for rent and i was cleaning the house but i gave up, yeah everyone thanked me but they didnt keep it clean for long. then one day i just blew, his brother use to steel from us all the time and seein i was waitressin i made tips well on a good week id make like 500 and i would keep them so i didnt spend my pay while no matter where i hid the money it would disapear and our room would be trashed and his brother would end up with drugs when he has no money the night before and no job. anyways once my hair stirghter, snow boards, hair dryer and so much more went missing i said fuck it i blew up at everyone. we had three locks on the our bedroom door and when they wanted something outa our room insted of asking they would just break the door, one day we came home and its broken right down the middle. oh what i forgot to mention is his parents no his brother steels and does drugs, well his dad started blaming my bf and i for steelin and they started saying my bf stole cause he has a drug problem, my bf doesnt have a drug problem yes he sometimes smoke dope but hardly ever. besides the point. anyways so they frecked and i said fuck it i couldnt do it now we live with my parents rent free and my moms a neat freak but i learned to love it more then hate it