lesbian household

ok so my babys father has done me soooo wrong for the past 2 yearsz and i just put up with his sh*t...and the last thing i foun dout about what a month ago.......and so for then on i just been on my bullsh*t im fed up with puttin gup with it...i love him...but i think im falling out of love with him...and i have NEVER gotten this feeling before...it really disturbs me. ever since i found out...i kinda went back down my favorite road...I LOOOOVE THE LADIES but for him...and our lil thing we got going on....i surpressed those feelings. but now im like eff it...he doing him...imma leave him for good this time...and go back to my lesbian roots. im tired of guys altogether...but he was my last lifeline in this "straight" road...anywho. my only issue with this is...my daughter comes in november...could i really raise her up in a lesbian household? i wouldnt take her away from her daddy....but i dont wanna traumatize her with two "mommies" hmm. females make me sooo happy...but i dunno if i can ever really let go of the ex...this sh*t is confusing. i wish he just acted right...but then i wish i could get over females...but im GAY AT HEART....ugh! i never meant to fall in love with him....3 years ago. i just wanted a baby lol. i know i have his heart...and he has mine but he pushed me away too many times. but im interested in this certain woman...she makes me sooo happy. can i really be serious with her...and provide my daughter with a healthy life thats he deserves? QUESTIONSZ!!! im going crazy inside my head

Lesbian couples can be perfectly good parents to.

There's nothing wrong with having two mommies.

I'm honestly considering that same path currently.

I grew up with a lesbian mom and her girlfriend. I think I came out ok.  

theres nothing wrong with raising her in a lesbian household. 2 mommies, 2 daddies, a mommy and a daddy its all the same to me.

I have a friend who's a lesbian and has been living with her girlfriend for over 15yrs about 3yrs ago they adopted 2 boys (blood brothers) and then 1 yr later they adopted their other little brother, and then like 6 months later their sister. So they range from 6 to 1-1/2yr olds. They are so happy, they couldnt of gotten better mommies.

I think that any child would be happier in a house with two parents that love each other and are happy together than two that fight all the time and are unhappy so if you think you are happier with women then be with a women as long as she is accepting and kind to your child I don't think gender matters

I think it will work out just fine. I don't think you should cut the daddy completely out of the picture, but there are sooo many children who grow up with two mommies and daddies and they're all just fine. Go with your heart honey. ;]

My sister is lesbian and her 2 daughters are perfectly normal and well adjusted kids.

It is better off that your children are raised in a loving environment than in a "politically correct" environment. Not that any one environement is but you know what I mean.You may actually be doing her a favor! Good luck and if you are never truly happy than how can your children be?!  

i don't think your sexual preference matters. I think what really matters is your child growing up in a happy home. Love is love. It's better for your child to grow up in a "lesbian" house where two people love eachother than a "straight" house where the parents fight.

My MIL is with another woman and they had a child that is the other womans but they consider it her child. They are happy so i dont see why not. The child is growing up just fine she is 13 now. No trama there she is doing fine and its normal to her and these days its becomeing more of a norm. If thats whats best for you its whats best for your baby!!

I don't doubt it will be confusing for the child if that's what you're asking.

proof and point.. im doing it but my partner is in the army currently.. she has been around for 4 years almost known her longer... she loves the kids like her own..
my kids fully understand what a lesbian is and that mommy loves woman and they are happy cause mommy is happy.. i dont think it makes a difference to the kids as long as they are happy..
i never lied to my kids
dont stop yourself from being with someone cause of what society thinks..

people are going to talk shit no matter what you do or who you are... so do what makes you happy..

feel free to pm me...

oh by the way...i am also in the army....its difficult...