Can I be sad?

I just want to be sad today. It's not an Angel-versary or my due date. But I would have been 30 weeks and anxiously awaiting the arrival of my baby. I miscarried at 5 weeks, and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of it. Now I am struggling to get pregnant again. It was like all the frustration of TTC finally paid off when I got that BFP in January and so fast it slipped away. My friends and family don't understand because they have never gone through it, I am thankful that I have found my wonderful friends here that understand and get me through day by day. Thanks for letting me vent. xoxo to all of you.

You certainly can be sad! Its your right to feel anyway you want at anytime. Im sorry to hear about you loss! I hope that your heart finds peace and a BFP in the near future!

Quoting GS♥Lisa♥MHB©:“ I just want to be sad today. It's not an Angel-versary or my due date. But I would have been 30 weeks ... [snip!] ... found my wonderful friends here that understand and get me through day by day. Thanks for letting me vent. xoxo to all of you.”

((HUGS)) I ♥ you

Quoting GS♥Lisa♥MHB©:“ I just want to be sad today. It's not an Angel-versary or my due date. But I would have been 30 weeks ... [snip!] ... found my wonderful friends here that understand and get me through day by day. Thanks for letting me vent. xoxo to all of you.”

Awww my Lisa Love... I understand your feelings. I deal with it everyday and have the constant reminder because Hunters sister is due the same day I was supposed to be. And thats in less than 3 weeks..... We'll get our babies!! Keep your head up love=)

hon you can be sad whenever you need to be. Don't worry about them, no one can understand that pain unless they've been through it. It doesn't just go away, it comes and goes for every anniversary or "would have been." Love ya chica, vent to us anytime!

I love you girls! Thank you. Somedays I just dont want to mention it because I don't want to bring you girls down.

Quoting GS♥Lisa♥MHB©:“ I love you girls! Thank you. Somedays I just dont want to mention it because I don't want to bring you girls down.”

Well I don't care, I may be sad for you, but I'm always here for you. I don't care how negative, sad, hopeless you feel, be honest and we'll do our best to help you through it!

Quoting GS♥Lisa♥MHB©:“ I love you girls! Thank you. Somedays I just dont want to mention it because I don't want to bring you girls down.”

That's how I am. I dont talk about it much when I'm down [which is quite often]. It's ok to feel like that! Anyone who knows the pain understands it all<3

Quoting CCC.Mrs.Rachael.MHB:“ Well I don't care, I may be sad for you, but I'm always here for you. I don't care how negative, sad, hopeless you feel, be honest and we'll do our best to help you through it!”

AMEN!

Quoting CCC.Mrs.Rachael.MHB:“ Well I don't care, I may be sad for you, but I'm always here for you. I don't care how negative, sad, hopeless you feel, be honest and we'll do our best to help you through it!”

Ditto that Lisa

Thank you all so much. I guess I feel like I can get through it, and I don't want to have to stir up feelings for you ladies. I would never want to make you sad.

Quoting GS♥Lisa♥MHB©:“ Thank you all so much. I guess I feel like I can get through it, and I don't want to have to stir up feelings for you ladies. I would never want to make you sad.”

You always make me smile..and I hope I can do the same for you.

Quoting ♥Jess MHB©:“ You always make me smile..and I hope I can do the same for you.”

everyday Jess.

I totally understand it all. I just lost my son May 20th at 24 weeks (6 months pregnant) and it is hard to deal with. I don't like to talk to anyone about it because they just dont understand and I don't want everyone else to feel sad just because I feel sad, u know. My due date is approaching Sept 10th and I dont know how that day will be for me and my hubby. Just know we are definitely here.

Quoting TeAndra:“ I totally understand it all. I just lost my son May 20th at 24 weeks (6 months pregnant) and it is hard ... [snip!] ... due date is approaching Sept 10th and I dont know how that day will be for me and my hubby. Just know we are definitely here.”

Thank you so much. I am so sorry for yoru loss. It must have been so hard to carry your son for that long and lose him. I can't imagine what that must feel like.