re: Induced tomorrow at 4:30am...

Quoting Viktorya:“ Naw, a csection isn't bad at all! The only thing I was worried about was the spinal, and if you plan ... [snip!] ... I chose the csection, at that point I was so tired and ready to have my baby, I just didn't want to wait anymore! lol.”

oh ok, wow that sucks that you were in labora long time before they gave you the option of C-section.. Well three weeks ago I went into false labor and was 1 cm, and like 80-90% effaced... Since then I've has sex like 3 times(sorry if tmi..lol) so im hoping that when i go in tomorrow I will be like 3cm or something (anything more than 1) They say sex helps to thin out the cervix more, and I have been walking like crazy to try to help dialate a little.. But I will do anything necessary to have my lil boy here healthyso if they tell me I have to have a C-section then I've tried to prepare myself for it..(just in case..)

Quoting *~Cotteysgirl20~*:“ oh ok, wow that sucks that you were in labora long time before they gave you the option of C-section.. ... [snip!] ... my lil boy here healthyso if they tell me I have to have a C-section then I've tried to prepare myself for it..(just in case..)”

Well, atleast you're preparing yourself  
I didn't! That was a major mistake, instead of spending the 2 hours before my csection relzxing I spent it bawling my eyes out! lol.

But yeah, hopefully you are progressed some more! i wanted a natural birth so badly, but oh well, I still have my healthy little boy!

Quoting Viktorya:“ Well, atleast you're preparing yourself   I didn't! That was a major mistake, instead of spending ... [snip!] ... hopefully you are progressed some more! i wanted a natural birth so badly, but oh well, I still have my healthy little boy!”

How bad is the scar that you got from the C-section..? I know it sounds selfish a little but I have made it my whole pregnancy without any stretchmarks, and if I deliver vaginally than when my belly goes down, most people probably wont be even able to tell that I have had a child...I know the scar will be worth it if it does happen, but how big and noticable is it?

Quoting *~Cotteysgirl20~*:“ How bad is the scar that you got from the C-section..? I know it sounds selfish a little but I have ... [snip!] ... able to tell that I have had a child...I know the scar will be worth it if it does happen, but how big and noticable is it?”

Its about..4 inches long, and very light pink, and im only 1 month PP
Id take a picture, but its surrounded by stretchmarks, so..no haha!

I got them bad, but thats good you didnt. I hate mine!!

Quoting Viktorya:“ Its about..4 inches long, and very light pink, and im only 1 month PP Id take a picture, but its surrounded by stretchmarks, so..no haha! I got them bad, but thats good you didnt. I hate mine!!”

Well that really doesn't sound that bad.. I think I could deal with that.. I take back that I didn't get ANY stretchmarks because i did sprout quite a few on my boobs and a few tinybarely noticableones on my hip, but other than that I've been blessed!! lol...

Quoting *~Cotteysgirl20~*:“ Well that really doesn't sound that bad.. I think I could deal with that.. I take back that I didn't ... [snip!] ... did sprout quite a few on my boobs and a few tinybarely noticableones on my hip, but other than that I've been blessed!! lol...”

wow your so lucky i have them everywhere! it sucks but they do go down (shrink) and fade so u cant really see them