worried

my husband comes home from iraq in 3 day! yay cant wait. he has been gone for 3 months.

so of course hes going to want to do it like rabbits.......my concern is, the last4 weeks i have been so extremely sore down there. I realize its because muscles are moving in order to make room for the delivery of our baby. But some days it hurts so bad that i cant walk around that much.

so what im wondering is have any of you ladies had sex whileyour sore down there?
And did it feel worse afterwards?

I dont want to disappoint my husband but somedays its hard just to take my pants off to jump in the shower, i dont want to move.

Ohh you must be so excited to see him. Just explain to him how you are feeling down there, you dont have to have full sex. Lots of foreplay etc will probably feel better for you if u dont want sex.
communication is the key! I bet he wont mind in the sightest.
you can give eachother massages have big long cuddles you'll have lots of talking to catch up on too! awww you can still make it a special night without sex.

Quoting wendylou:“ Ohh you must be so excited to see him. Just explain to him how you are feeling down there, you dont have ... [snip!] ... have big long cuddles you'll have lots of talking to catch up on too! awww you can still make it a special night without sex.”

yea, but see the bad thing is i want to have sex just as much a prolyl he does, BUT on the other hand....im worried its going to make matters worse.

i just hope it doesnt.

Is it hurting because of the pressure and heaviness of the baby or is your bits sore?
Just take it real slow and tell him, if u really want it that bad...aww i feel 4 u honey!

Quoting wendylou:“ Is it hurting because of the pressure and heaviness of the baby or is your bits sore? Just take it real slow and tell him, if u really want it that bad...aww i feel 4 u honey!”

no it just feels like there is so much pressure down there....like the baby is just putting all her weight on my vajaja...so to speak.lol

lol..if you want it that bad, take is slow.

Is your husband Air Force?

if u really wanna have sex just do it but explain to himm that your sore so he'll have to go slow after that thing should feel normal but if u do have sex make sure u wrap it up or tell him not to cum in u or your sure to have the baby the next day thats what happen to me i had 5 weeks left

Quoting K!:“ lol..if you want it that bad, take is slow. Is your husband Air Force?”

yeah he's AF

Quoting Mi Son iS My world:“ if u really wanna have sex just do it but explain to himm that your sore so he'll have to go slow after ... [snip!] ... u wrap it up or tell him not to cum in u or your sure to have the baby the next day thats what happen to me i had 5 weeks left”

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!! no way!

yeah i had sex and the next day i went into labor it was all because my babiesdaddy decided that he couldent pull out lol

I'm not much help here as far as your question. But no matter what, enjoy your time with him! Yay! I know how excited you are. Best feeling in the world!  

Quoting Mi Son iS My world:“ yeah i had sex and the next day i went into labor it was all because my babiesdaddy decided that he couldent pull out lol”

that doesnt always happen to everyone though right.....i thought it was good to have sex near the end of your pregnancy.

Quoting Ash +1 *GIG*:“ I'm not much help here as far as your question. But no matter what, enjoy your time with him! Yay! I know how excited you are. Best feeling in the world!  ”

thank you sooo much...i cant wait to see him. i feel like a gitty school girl. lol

Quoting Brookes Mommy:“ that doesnt always happen to everyone though right.....i thought it was good to have sex near the end of your pregnancy.”

I thought sex induces labor...or is that a wive's tale?

Quoting K!:“ I thought sex induces labor...or is that a wive's tale?”

well i heard it helps to induce it.....but didnt know it could happen the next day.lol. although im excited to see my baby i dont want her coming out to early