HI I AM 16 and pregnant

HI im Alyssa and Im 16 turning 17 in december. I am a very tough situation...
I am 3 months pregnant and 1 week. I never thought i would get pregnant this young. I mean its not the end of the world but theres alot you gotta stop doing or put on hold... BUt its exciting and scary at the same time.. BRINGing in a new life..
Well I have had unprottected sex in the past with one of my boyfriends before and I never got pregnant... But I had a new boyfriend ... I got pregnant 2 days after my period ended...I didnt know I was pregnant till I was 6.5 weeks.. I missed my period and I had all the symptoms.. but didn't want to believe it.
IM scared cuz my boyfriend is older than me and we were only together for 4 months. Well anyway it only took one time to get pregnant..ITs hard for me to tell my parents. There divorcing...me and my mom arn't close anymore and I dont see her much and im afraid if i tell her she might completly flip out on me.... SOme say this might bring the family closer???.. I dont know how she'll react. Or my dad.. hes been depressed for 3 months cuz my mom left him. And he drinks like every single night and i dont know wat to do......... I live with my 19 year old brother and my dad and his friend thats a girl.... I am the baby out of my sister and my brother..,..... Im postitive im keeping my baby. Its the right thing to do. It happened for a reason. My boyfriend was a mistake but the baby aint... I think my boyfriend cheats on me.. and I dont think hes there for me.. And maybe all he wanted to do was have sex. He calls me when he has nothing else to do... Like once a week. We only see eachother like once a week to every 2 weeks... Whats the point ? IT just hurts me... to know that the father of you kid wont be there for you. Hed rather live in seattle or california with his friend to find more firends that Stay with his girlfriend and his baby... I dont need him. But im just afraid of whats gonna happen with my parents and family....

congrats...........

Good Luck to you and your little one!

Well you have to tell someone. I assume you have proper healthcare?

Good luck with everything. You should tell your parents ASAP. If you need advice on that look at the top of this part of the forum and there is a sticky!

Quoting Beanies Mom {Educated B}:“ congrats...........”

heh, same thing here.

Quoting Allys.:“ HI im Alyssa and Im 16 turning 17 in december. I am a very tough situation... I am 3 months pregnant ... [snip!] ... for a reason. I did what I did so I must face the consequences and bring this baby into the world cuz its a life to you know!”

Hey, love to chat via AIM. I just went thru the same thing, and I would love to share some advice and help you out with questions and stress and such.

My AIM is LarennaLove.

Hope to chat soon!

Yep, your right, it only takes one time of unprotected sex to get preggers   But good luck!

congrats =D good luck with everything

Good luck.

Me and my bf were together forrrr about 4-5 months before i got pregnant. And we had sex unprotected ALL the time.. haha... we were starting to think we couldn't get pregnant. But now we couldn't be happier. =] i love my little porker. I think since your dad drinks and your mom is crazy, you should confide in your brother. Because you don't know what your parents will do. It could turn dangerous.

Hi 16 and pregnant,
I'm Samantha.
Good luck with all.
Thanks for sharing.

good luck and congrats... it's not easy but it's well worth it!!

Quoting Allys.:“ HI im Alyssa and Im 16 turning 17 in december. I am a very tough situation... I am 3 months pregnant ... [snip!] ... for a reason. I did what I did so I must face the consequences and bring this baby into the world cuz its a life to you know!”

I'm glad you're being mature and keeping your baby. I give you kudo's for that.

my mother is also Bipolar and we went through some very hard times in my high school years so I feel for you there. You definitely need to get an appt with a doc though. Whereabouts in OR do you live? There are free pregnancy clinics in Salem if you're close and dont have insurance. Take care of yourself and try not to stress too much about how your parents will take it. It may just be a blessing to your family in disguise. Babies are always blessings.