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posted 1st Aug
Quoting Abby + 1:“ Just because a boy plays with barbies and girls play with cars doesnt mean they'll be gay!”
What I am saying is to push them more to one side vs. the other. Like not allow them to associate with girls if they r a boy or the opposite if the r a girl. Maybe send them to a all boys or all girl school?
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in ?
posted 1st Aug
You don't really get a say in it... I mean, these days people are more accepting, but you still have parents disowning their children based only on their sexuality. I doubt many people would choose to raise their children gay if it was an option. Even if they're not homophobic or don't have religious issues with it, it's still a harder life than being heterosexual in most instances, and who wants that for their kids? That being said, I also don't think you should try to force your child to be straight. You can screw your kid up pretty badly by making them feel like their abnormal or sinners or whatever else people seem to think gay people are.
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posted 1st Aug
are you talking about gender roles. like boys playing with dolls and girls having a work bench?


i dont get this question, children aren't sexual till a certain time in their life
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posted 1st Aug
Quoting Abby + 1:“ you're confusing me.”

I tend to do that alot   Is it even possible? To make a child gay or lesiban spl
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posted 1st Aug
Quoting LOVES MONKEYS:“ are you talking about gender roles. like boys playing with dolls and girls having a work bench? i dont get this question, children aren't sexual till a certain time in their life”
In a sense yea. But If a mom decided hey I want my daughter to be gay is it possible and would it be right to beat that into their head?
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in ?
posted 1st Aug
I think it's a detriment to children in general for them to be forced into traditional gender roles. A girl that has no interest in dolls shouldn't have them pushed on her and a boy who isn't into sports shouldn't be made to participate. I think that giving your kids a well-rounded selection of activities and toys and to allow them to find their own way is best.

I don't, however, understand the OP's insinuation that gender roles and sexual preference are absolutely related to each other.
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 1st Aug
Quoting HautιMama Hatin'OnBeezies:“ This question is moronic...”
  
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I have 1 child & live in Inverness, Florida
posted 1st Aug
Quoting Luv it or Hate it! (BBB):“ Ok do u think its ok or would u raise your child to be gay or lesbian? It came up in a convo just wondering. Maybe this should be in D&D lol.”

do we think what is ok??
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I have 1 child & live in Springfield, Illinois
posted 1st Aug
Quoting LOVES MONKEYS:“ ask rosies kids......”
Whos rosie anyway lol?
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in ?
posted 1st Aug
Quoting Luv it or Hate it! (BBB):“ I tend to do that alot   Is it even possible? To make a child gay or lesiban spl”

If you feed them certain foods, they are more likely to turn out gay. So if you have a boy and you're hoping for him to be gay, you feed them lots of cucumbers and carrot sticks (preferably the BIG carrot sticks). If you have a girl and want them to be a lesbain, feed them tacos and hotdog buns (without the hotdog). Ohhh and it's super important that you allow them to play with their food.
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I have 1 child & live in Nebraska
posted 1st Aug
Quoting *!Kerri!*:“ do we think what is ok??”

To "raise" a child to be gay?
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in ?
posted 1st Aug
Quoting Luv it or Hate it! (BBB):“ In a sense yea. But If a mom decided hey I want my daughter to be gay is it possible and would it be right to beat that into their head?”

Are you serious??? You can't force a heterosexual to be gay any more than you can force a homosexual to be straight. I would NEVER force my child to live a lifestyle that is dishonest to themselves. Of course it isn't possible for me to decide my child should be a lesbian and snap my fingers and make that happen.
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 1st Aug
Quoting BritniLynn {Elijah's mama:“ If you feed them certain foods, they are more likely to turn out gay. So if you have a boy and you're ... [snip!] ... them tacos and hotdog buns (without the hotdog). Ohhh and it's super important that you allow them to play with their food.”
Okkkkkkkkkkk  
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