stupid vent..

just pissy over stupid mark

he goes to school on tuesday and thursday nights, my days off are wed thursday....

so tonight he wants to go to the casino with his friends.. he did this shit last week!
it makes me mad that im home alone all day and then he still wants to go out with his friends on my days off!!!!!!!!!!

he has the freaking weekends to go out and every other night that im at work! why must his stupid ass friends want to go out on my fucking days that i want to spend time with him...

we went over this last week too..
fuck him im not doing his laundry
he can go to work in a wrinkley shirt for all i care  

My husband and I had this fight too. He seemed to schedule everything (or everything was scheduled for him, w/e) on my two nights off. He has gotten a lot better about it, though. I had to talk to him about ita lot for him to udnerstand.

I think every relationship has this same fight. Women want to spend alone time on days off. Men want their time on days off. Sometimes the two don't meet up. Talk to him about it. Don't yell, don't blame. Just explain to him how you feel and why. It helps. Well it did me anyway.

its like come on idiot! you have FRIDAY AND SATURDAY nights to yourself... and EVERY OTHER NIGHT.... why my night?? hmmhmm hmm?

its sad my only revenge is him going to work in a wrinkley shirt..

and we talked about it... and we are going to be taking a vaction next sunday- wed... but still   i had a hard week, i want us time NOW!

Quoting CynthiaRenee:“ I think every relationship has this same fight. Women want to spend alone time on days off. Men want ... [snip!] ... up. Talk to him about it. Don't yell, don't blame. Just explain to him how you feel and why. It helps. Well it did me anyway.”

oh we have, and we also have this 'agreement' that we dont make plans during us time...

apparently it doesnt count as us time if he's leaving from school and going out...

we had plans to go to our towns farmers market today   we hadnt gone all year.. but no he needs to go spend money he claims he doesnt have.