my dads girlfriend

so my dad has been with his girlfriend for about 10 years now. they have a 7 year old and a 7 month old together. on mothers day this year she was diagnosed with lung cancer 2 weeks ago she found out it was on her liver and in her stomach. she was my dads best friend. even tho the rest of my family didnt approve of her he kept her around. i never had a problem with her. well at 11:30 last night she passed away. i feel really bad for him because no one is acting like it matters and my poor dad is upset and alone with 2 kids. his baby is really high needs (cleft palate and deformed tounge he chokes on and a recessed chin) unfourtunately i live kinda far away and i have a 2 year old and a 8 month old of my own. i took some time off work to be with him im leaving tomorrow a.m to be with him.
i guess im writing this because i dont know who else to tell and i feel really bad my dad lost his best friend and mother to 2 of his kids.

please keep my dad in your prays. he needs to stay stronge for the 2 little ones

I will pray for you all! Your Dad is lucky to have a great daughter!

Aw wow I'm sorry,he'll def be in my thoughts!

i hope you and your dad feels better. i'm sorry for yours and your dad's loss. she's in a better place now and she's going to watch over you, your family and especially your dad and her children.

My prayers are with your family! I hope everything works out for your daddy!

he'll be in my thoughs and your other family needs to get over it it's already been so long and don't they see that he's in pain and need them?

My apologies. Ur being a very good daughter. U guys will be in  my prayers =)

I am going to be keeping your guys in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless

My prayers and thoughts are with your family, Everything will work out.

Thats really sad to hear. I just found out my best friend has cancer too and shes only 22. Thats good your going to help him out. My prayers are with you and your family.

That is terrible  Will thinks good thoughts for your father.

I am praying for you guys.You are a blessed daughter to have. Someday the favour will be returned to you.

That is very sad, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Quoting ashley2119:“ so my dad has been with his girlfriend for about 10 years now. they have a 7 year old and a 7 month old ... [snip!] ... best friend and mother to 2 of his kids. please keep my dad in your prays. he needs to stay stronge for the 2 little ones”

omg.. IM SO SORRY FOR HIS LOSS... i will keep him and his youngst siblings in y prayers and will ask other friends to do so as well.. give him our BG blessings.. and you e sure to let your dad know how muh you care for him and how much yuo are understanding of his loss... i know it may be hard but he is your father.. and right now im sure he need someone to show him that he is still loved and appreciated now more then ever since no one else is really showing any respect to him in his time of grievance...

Quoting ashley2119:“ so my dad has been with his girlfriend for about 10 years now. they have a 7 year old and a 7 month old ... [snip!] ... best friend and mother to 2 of his kids. please keep my dad in your prays. he needs to stay stronge for the 2 little ones”

Aw, this is so sad. I know that you being there will help, a little. It is very sweet that you can see that she loved him, and he loved her... It is so sad when no one will validate love... You are a special daughter, and I am hoping your dad and siblings will be okay.