39 weeks...

hey guys so im 39 weeks and due friday...i feel like i should be feelin more then i am...usually in hte mornin or sometimes throu the day i feel like im havin contactions but im not sure what to be feelin for.. this is my first baby so this is all so new... at my 37 week app. and they said i was 1 1/2 cm and half thinned out....and htne last week she didnt check me at all...i was hopin not to make it to this weeks appointment but i havent really been feelin anthin but a little crampiness and sometimes major cramps in my legs and lower abdomin and alot of pelvic and rectum pressure but none of hte "contractins" im feelin are stickin and its so frustration i cant sleep becuase when i move my legs the area between my legs and crotch hurt soooooo much....any ideas or thots???