re: I want people opinions

Quoting Mary [is getting MARRIED]:“ Yeah, so far its only one guy she has offered it too (her ex) however if i know her, which I do, she ... [snip!] ... bad for saying this) she should not become a mother, expesually right now. She doesnt even know how to take care of a child.”

I wouldn't feel bad saying it if it's true. Some people just don't need babies at points in their lives, and if this si her logic to become a mother then I think you're right. It might be different if she was in a lesbian commited relationship and they had a sperm donor or something, but just paying random guys to knock her up? Uh, no.

Quoting Ladee+Grantsy Pants:“ God lol GO TO SLEEP then lol. I can't, I have that OB appt in a few hours. Speaking of, I need to call ... [snip!] ... which office it's at. Some of my appts have been made at the office across town and it doesn't specify on my printout. Asses.”

Uggh. I can't sleep. Khi is practicing kick boxing, and hubby will be home in about an hour to change into his ACU's. If I went to sleep he'd wake me up askng where something was anyway.

Quoting ***Yummy**Mummy***:“ Errr.....stupid....really stupid idea. She's 19 clearly hasn't got a path in life clearly doesn't relise ... [snip!] ... she wait for the one she loves and cares for to be able to have a baby with that person instead of some guy she is paying..x”

This is what she told me before "I dont want to be the 40 yr. old virgin"
Dont get me wrong, Im 19 and have a kid but this girl is beyond stupid.
So is the guy. I personally know them both and cant believe either of them. This guy had a girlfriend with a child on the way. And this girl has been trying to not only get with that guy, but also my fiance (One of the problems me and her have been having).

She is soooo desperate for sex is disgusting. To pay someone to have sex with her? And she has told people if she is pregnant (which she is already telling people she is) she is not allowing this guy into the childs life. I dont understand how someone can be like this.

Quoting Ashley+Makhi :[BBB]:[FGG]:“ Uggh. I can't sleep. Khi is practicing kick boxing, and hubby will be home in about an hour to change into his ACU's. If I went to sleep he'd wake me up askng where something was anyway.”

LOL then lay it all out for him and then go to sleep. I feel you though Grant's been awake all morning too. Which is really unusual for him he's usually sleeping by now getting ready for me to go home. I guess he's just hyper and awake this morning.

Quoting Ladee+Grantsy Pants:“ I wouldn't feel bad saying it if it's true. Some people just don't need babies at points in their lives, ... [snip!] ... a lesbian commited relationship and they had a sperm donor or something, but just paying random guys to knock her up? Uh, no.”

No, I meant totally. She should not become a mother, she is not fit too. Well, I guess maybe if she actually "grows up". But certainlly not right now. Yes, her family has money (she is a spoiled fucking brat thinking she can always get what she wants) but she cant give a child what it needs. I can see that just by the way she interactted with my child. She was just using Emily-Rose like a prop for pictures.(Another problem I had with her)

That poor kid...if it grew up and somehow found out that its mother had to pay its father for sex to have him....that would be so sad. It's sad that the guy doesn't care about her so much that he's willing to take the money for sex...if he is stupid enough to think that she won't turn around and make him pay child support if she does get pregnant he's an idiot. He will still be the father regardless of if he got paid to be or not and he's gonna end up screwed.

Quoting Mary [is getting MARRIED]:“ No, I meant totally. She should not become a mother, she is not fit too. Well, I guess maybe if she ... [snip!] ... the way she interactted with my child. She was just using Emily-Rose like a prop for pictures.(Another problem I had with her)”

Well, if you don't tell her mother then you definately need to tell someone. She's down a really bad path already, but maybe if someone catches her in time she can be helped.

Quoting Ladee+Grantsy Pants:“ Well, if you don't tell her mother then you definately need to tell someone. She's down a really bad path already, but maybe if someone catches her in time she can be helped.”

Yeah, Im going to try and get this girls address. And I know someone with her home phone number.

Quoting Mary [is getting MARRIED]:“ How would you feel if someone you know was paying people for sex? Ok....now, paying people to get them pregnant? Is this right? Should someone let her parents know?”

I dont think its her parents business if she is over 18, and I dont think it is your place to tell them.

If you are her friend then you need to talk with her, but if your not her friend and cant talk to her, then dont talk to her parents. If after you talk to her you feel like she is endangering her lief, then MAYBE I would bring in the parents, but only as a last resort.

Quoting Mary [is getting MARRIED]:“ This is what she told me before "I dont want to be the 40 yr. old virgin" Dont get me wrong, Im 19 and ... [snip!] ... telling people she is) she is not allowing this guy into the childs life. I dont understand how someone can be like this.”

You know what Im only 18 buti have made myself a famıly life and chosen this path to go down. Im happily married and we have a house together but how the hell can someone at the age of 19 be so fucking immature!! How can she be so stupid and not even set up some sort of stability fora baby. Its disgraceful..in situations like this I feel so sorry for the baby that could possibly end up in this sad situation and millions of women who are TTC out there who are desparate to conceive a babyand bring a baby into a lovinga stable home whichis the total opposite to what this girl is doing...im sorry if i have ranted on too much its just its so frustrating to hear things like this...

way off base here...but since when does a girl need to pay a man for sex?

Quoting McLeary:“ way off base here...but since when does a girl need to pay a man for sex?”

Exactally.....

Quoting Dev22:“ I dont think its her parents business if she is over 18, and I dont think it is your place to tell ... [snip!] ... you talk to her you feel like she is endangering her lief, then MAYBE I would bring in the parents, but only as a last resort.”

You know I completly forgot about this until now. She told me once that bc of the complications at her birth, there is a chance if she became pregnant, she could die. Im not sure how true that is.

I didn't read all the replies, but she is 19, not a child - it's none of her parents business. She is an adult.

As far as any problems she has, talk to her about it and see what she says. Don't go off telling her parents her business, especially if she has her own apartment and a job. If she seems independent, then her parents would be powerless to stop her anyways.

Quoting MommyRu:“ I didn't read all the replies, but she is 19, not a child - it's none of her parents business. She is ... [snip!] ... if she has her own apartment and a job. If she seems independent, then her parents would be powerless to stop her anyways.”

But if that was your daughter surely you would want to know what was going on so you could help her?