making my life impossible(veryyyy long)

ok so i dont know if this is normal,but i feel like if everithing gets on myfrikingnerves...but man its a good dam reason for me to get all fed up...so before i got pregnant my husband which was my bf at the time came to live with me and my grandparents(ive been back and forth from living with my mom to my grandparents)but this last time i decided to stay with her..so back to the subject,so i come from a big family(uggghhh)my mom got two sisters and they each have little girls ages 1 and up...i mean i love my family but they are son nosy into each others life my youngest aunt is so dam immature!she has two daughters and she leaves them with my grandmother 24/7 i told my grandmother shes taking away responsibility from my aunt but she just doesnt understand...everymorning one of ther daughters the oldest is here i begged my grandmother to be understanding since im pregnant and the little girl is veryyyy annoying and disobedient but she says ok blah blah blah and two days later shes back...man my grandmother is making my life impossible,and making this whole pregnancy depressing...arent grandmas suppose to be nice and make you milk and cookies and knit sweaters??well i guess thats just not my grandmother because she is very dramatic and not understanding...im so fed up i want to move out already but me and my husband just dont have the money   im sorry i may sound like i complain alot but i got nobody to talk to.

we're here to listen hun so vent away! Sounds like you have a tough situation! Is there anyway you can be elsewhere when your cousin comes over? Now is the time to destress and not get all worked up! Confront your Grandma and maybe she'll get your point! Good luck!

Quoting 1st_Time_Mama!:“ we're here to listen hun so vent away! Sounds like you have a tough situation! Is there anyway you can ... [snip!] ... over? Now is the time to destress and not get all worked up! Confront your Grandma and maybe she'll get your point! Good luck!”

thank you,i have confronted her many times but theres no getting through to her.i wish i did but the only way i could get somewhere is with her car and lately shes been all pissy about the gas when we put gas almost everyday