things just aren't going good- venting!

tim and i are struggling! i'm not working right now; thanks to totaling my car. and he is making shit! he feels bad (finally!!!!!!) for not being able to provide for me. he wants me to try to find somewhere to stay for now so that he can get shit straight; like at my mom's or another family memeber's. but its not possible. i know it should be since i am pregnant but its not. and i just dont feel like getting into that right now. im so misreble anyways! i love tim to death *we've been together for 3 years* but im just unhappy! we constantly fight and are terrible to one another. and since i moved in with him & got married i rarely talk to any of my girlfriends and the ones i do cant let me stay with them because they still ive at home... im just so lonely right now.. tims never here for me when i need someone to talk to.

I just dont know what ima do!

having a totaled car is a lame excuse. You shouldn't make him 'feel bad' for not providing for you if you aren't even trying to help!

as hard as it is to not fight over the stressful money situation..you should never lrt money ruin what you have...sit down with him...watch a movie eat dinner flirt and talk about anything and everything you want BESIDES money

Bus pass.

Quoting 7/27 Birthday Girl!:“ having a totaled car is a lame excuse. You shouldn't make him 'feel bad' for not providing for you if you aren't even trying to help!”

its not a lame exscuse it is the truth.. and for the bus pass comment from Lil'mommy; there are no buses where i live. and i live out in bfe there is nothing within walking distance too me, trust me walking isn't a problem.. i lived in vegas and walked to work daily. i'm not coming up with any exscuse & i'm not making him feel guilty, he's coming to me and saying these things..

Quoting 7/27 Birthday Girl!:“ having a totaled car is a lame excuse. You shouldn't make him 'feel bad' for not providing for you if you aren't even trying to help!”

and if you know how he is *my other post* you would understand why i said finalyl!

Quoting amanda grace:“ and if you know how he is *my other post* you would understand why i said finalyl!”

Lazy.

Quoting 7/27 Birthday Girl!:“ Lazy.”

ok .

Why can't you get another car? Even if it were just a $500 thing, it can get you from point a to b which means you could work or when he's home from work, you could go to work if you only have one car and that way you both can work.

Quoting Cowgirl♥Up:“ Why can't you get another car? Even if it were just a $500 thing, it can get you from point a to b which ... [snip!] ... means you could work or when he's home from work, you could go to work if you only have one car and that way you both can work.”

i don't even have $500, when i got into my accident my savings was in a safe and that wasn't in my car when i got to the towing company. and my husbands truck is a work truck.. which we can't use for personal use. trust me i am trying to find something! like on friday's and saturday's i go with my sister in law to a mexican/spanish bar and dance. its just regular mexican dancing and if a guy wants to dance with me its $5 its nothing crazy either so i'm not putting stress on my body for the baby- i mainly only say yes to dance when its a slow song! and if they want to buy me a soda or water they have to pay me $5 as well.. i make about $100 a week but that goes towards our groceries. its not like i'm completely dependent on him

also right now because of our problems (we argue constantly) we are taking a break from each other and i'm moving out this week. i don't want to be away from him, but its for the best for right now..