I feel so Hurt!

Okay a couple of days ago I post a topic on how my husband said he didn't love me or have feelings for me like he use to. We were trying to work on our marriage and then out of the blue his friend calls me to inform me that he had been cheating on me! I am so hurt right now I don't what to do and he the bitch knew he was married and that he had a kid and plus she works with him so he sees her every day, Oh he says that he broke everything off with her! but am I stupid for still loving him and wanting to stay! I want this to work so bad but I can't make him love me,. My whole family was shocked. They loved him so much and thought he was the bestthing in the whole world! but I just keep thinking of our daughter and our unborn son. What am I to do?!

Quoting Gracies Momma:“ Okay a couple of days ago I post a topic on how my husband said he didn't love me or have feelings for ... [snip!] ... thought he was the bestthing in the whole world! but I just keep thinking of our daughter and our unborn son. What am I to do?!”

I am so sorry that happened and i hate to say it but usually guys who cheat once will do it again...especially after all the stuff he said to you... i think the only way you could stay together for the kids sake would be if you both could be respectful and civil and i think that would be really hard... if you are fighting all the time i don't think that's any better for the kids then if you are seperated... i don't know your situation enough to tell you what i would do, but i hope everything works out for the best for you and your kids

Youre not stupid for still loving him. If you ever loved him at all youd know you cant just turn the feelings off just because he hurt you. I dont believe in cheating. My guy knows that if he ever cheated on me and I found out about it I would leave him. Not all women feel that way so you have to look within yourself and decide whats best for you. Good luck!

ohh i wish i had some magic potion to help people when i hear this stuff.its soo hard to let go of someone that you still have deep love for and its soo painful to know that someone you care about more than anything doesn feel the same way.all i can say is i hope the situation changes for the better mama! i will keep you in my prayers

do not stay with this man solely for your children... that is completely the wrong reason. if it ends up causing you stress and emotional harm to stay with him then DONT.Unhappy parentsleads to unhappy children. Things might be best for the two of you to go your seperate ways. It looks like he already is. This doesnt mean he has to be out of either of your kids lives... but somethings gotta change, either him, you, or the both of you even. Currently things are not at a healthy standpoint.

thats horrible, im so sorry to hear that. but honestly, if that jerk is gonna do this to you while you are carring his child, hes gonna do it when ever he wants...to save yourself the heartache, i think you should leave him alone. its a difficult situation, i just think that it would be best to break it off now. what kind of man does that to his wife while she's pregnant!? im going to pray for you. be strong.

It's quite possible that he has ended things and does want to work things out with you, but it's not easy. My husband and I have gone through so, so much, and still are. We don't stay together for our kids, but that should always be a factor in decisions you make because you want their best interest at heart too, whether that means staying or going. You can't stop yourself from loving him just like you can't force him to love you. Men are just completely opposite of us, and it's hard to give them the things they want sometimes.

Quoting Jynefir Dyan:“ do not stay with this man solely for your children... that is completely the wrong reason. if it ends ... [snip!] ... but somethings gotta change, either him, you, or the both of you even. Currently things are not at a healthy standpoint.”

U r completely right! To keep me sane right now we r taking it a day at a time. My daughter hasn't been here through this though I am very grateful to have a wonderful family who r helping. I think what will me hard is trusting him and not wanting to stock him at work. I just want to forgive and forget!

Quoting .:|Ms.New.Mommy|:.:“ thats horrible, im so sorry to hear that. but honestly, if that jerk is gonna do this to you while you ... [snip!] ... be best to break it off now. what kind of man does that to his wife while she's pregnant!? im going to pray for you. be strong.”

That's what I keep thinking! Uh I am so numb!

Quoting Gracies Momma:“ Okay a couple of days ago I post a topic on how my husband said he didn't love me or have feelings for ... [snip!] ... thought he was the bestthing in the whole world! but I just keep thinking of our daughter and our unborn son. What am I to do?!”

I'm so sorry to hear that has happened to you. Its not wrong of you not to love him He gave you two beautiful children. I understand how you can be upset with her but just remeber that she didnt make him and i know she is a home wrecker, Also let me ask you if you'd be able to trust him again, and if so do you think he wants to make it work? anyways I'm not married but the man i'm with was/is but i met him once she left. So i deal with the thought of him ever going back to her cause they have two daughters and now we are expecting a child. Again i;m so sorry this happened if you need anyone to talk to let me know