stupid ex boyfriends. just venting.

Well about a month ago, My baby's daddy and I ended our relationship. Now, he is acting more childish as ever. My son is 3 months old now and he has only gave me $50(well it was actually his mom giving me the money..he didn't have "any")However,he is getting a mini horse.I was trying to be nice and not take him to court but I have an appointment with a lawyer Monday for child support. About two weekends ago, he was suppose to watch my little man. He ended up calling and saying he was "sick." I was fine with that cause I didn't want my son to get sick. However, I caught him in town with his new woman.
His mom and I get along just fine, well I get along with everyone on his family but him. Well she told me the other day that when he is "suppose" to be watching him. He always gives my son to her and pretty much just goes in his room and watches tv. He's going to end up regretting it in the future. I swear I can't believe he doesn't want to spend time with his own son. Anyone else been in similar situations?


edit- btw, he has only been with this girl for 3 weeks and they are already "engaged"

Wow he is neglecting the kid.. That sucks. I mean I guess your son is going to get to know his grandma so that's good.. But he's losing out on getting to know his father at all. From the sounds of it though, nota huge loss..

The easiest solution will be to go to court and get everything documented. That way if he fucks up he will be in trouble. Some states will revoke his car registration if he does not pay...then his new girlfriend can drive his dumb ass around.

Goddamnit, that pisses me off. I want to kick his loser ass for you, babe, if that makes you feel any better. He sounds like selfish asshole and you could do much better. Sad as it (and I am going through something similar), your life and your child's life would probably be much better and less stressful without this POS complicating things.

Seriously, how old is your ex? He sounds ridiculiously immature.

Oh, but I do totally support you taking it to the legal level to get child support. He deserves the extra stress in his life of having to deal with lawyers. And of course, he needs to be financially responsible for the child that he made.

Thats crap Id def take his ass to court

My son's donor is the same way. his entire family is and my son will be 3 in september hasn't seen him in over a year. and he's never seen anybody in his family (grand parents aunts uncles nothing) and he hasnt helped me financially at all. i have warrents out for his arrest but he's out in cali with his family so nothing can be done. And i think my son is better off this way. he doesn't need the influence of a jerk like that. Just be strong and do what you know is best