re: **!!PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING!!**

how about SAHMs VS Working Moms??
thats a good one... which is better and more beneficial to baby, and WHY?

I have one... My ex always feels the need to bring his wife around to all my babies functions. She was in the waiting room when she was being born.. she is always there when he comes to pick her up and she was at her first birthday party at MY house... Am i wrong for not wanting her to come. I think i just feel like if i was in her shoes i wouldn't be comin.

Hm... So bummed... I posted what I thought was an awesome Debate and Discuss topic, and it didn't really go the way I wanted it to!!

"The Swan" check it out, I want some educational thoughful responses other than, "I'd get plastic surgery done" or , "Who cares, if plastic surgery makes them happy" Not really hitting on any points of the argument...

Oh well, maybe I should post at an earlier time when more moms are on!!

Quoting .Theresa.:“ No ex-girlfriend will ever have a say in my childs life. Nor will any future girlfriends or wives. I mean..if me and my hubby were to break up that is. But..I agree.”

You say that now, but what if down the road you and your SO break up/divorce, and you re-marry to a wonderful man who has FULL custody of his children, and the 'mother' is in the picture somewhat, but isnt responsible at all when it comes for the care of/well being of her children, and your SO relies on you to help with them. Then you will be the 'other wife/girlfriend' with the opinion. Be.c when you get so attached to the kids, you only want the best for them, and if that means having a different opinion than the ex-wife or ex-girlfriend, then i think its a bit different, and it matters VERY much