Pretty upset.:VENT:[Kinda strong language]

How can people come up to me and tell me I don't deserve my son because of my age??? It just pisses me off...I know plenty of people who are "adults" age wise and don't give a royal fuck about their kids. But me? I don't drink, I don't do ANY type of drugs, I don't go out and fuck around and party. How am I a bad mom? Where do they get off telling me I DON'T deserve to be a mother??? Its just plain ignorant...I get up at 3am when he cries and take care of him. I buy his clothes,formula,diapers, and any other thing he needs. Maybe I am only 16 and I don't know everything, but I don't claim to either..I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense. I'm just sick and tired of people judgeing me because I am 16 and have a baby. I have never done anything to not deserve him IMO. I guess some people just need a life 

As long as you know that you are a good mommy, who cares what anyone else thinks?

Since your a teen mother, your going to get that. But its only going to make you stronger.

Quoting Miss Brittany.:“ As long as you know that you are a good mommy, who cares what anyone else thinks?”

I know but it just gets so frustrating and upsetting when people give you dirty looks or say things...I just get sick of people like that

Quoting Timmy's-mama[9days]:“ How can people come up to me and tell me I don't deserve my son because of my age??? It just pisses me ... [snip!] ... me because I am 16 and have a baby. I have never done anything to not deserve him IMO. I guess some people just need a life ”

ya definatley I was 16 when I had my first so ya they can screw off

Ingore it! I had my sister calling me telling me I dont deserve Hazel because I drink once in a while,never when my daughter is awake,plus she has everything she needs so why the fuck not.


Its not like I do it everyday,as I said ingore it lol.

the only thing you can do is prove them wrong

Young moms will always get shit for their age... i still do and im 21...

When people find out im about to have #3, they say stuff like, "Have you figured out what causes it yet?" W/E

As long as you are doing your best your fine... and your little guy doesnt care... he thinks your the best mommy in the world, and isnt his opinion the one that really counts??

Quoting Miss Brittany.:“ As long as you know that you are a good mommy, who cares what anyone else thinks?”

Agreed. Age has nothing to do with being a parent. Their are plenty of crappy parents in their 20s, 30s and even 40s.

Quoting babydoll.:“ Ingore it! I had my sister calling me telling me I dont deserve Hazel because I drink once in a while,never ... [snip!] ... is awake,plus she has everything she needs so why the fuck not. Its not like I do it everyday,as I said ingore it lol.”

Yeah it was my YOUNGER sister who says most of the crap...She just annoys me so bad. she thinks she's miss perfect and won't ever mess up(not that my son is a mess up, he was just a surprise and i wouldnt change it for the world)

Quoting Timmy's-mama[9days]:“ I know but it just gets so frustrating and upsetting when people give you dirty looks or say things...I just get sick of people like that”

I know, just prove them wrong. Show them that you are a great mom.

Quoting Timmy's-mama[9days]:“ How can people come up to me and tell me I don't deserve my son because of my age??? It just pisses me ... [snip!] ... me because I am 16 and have a baby. I have never done anything to not deserve him IMO. I guess some people just need a life ”

They do!

I get so many dirty looks and Im 20 expecting my first, then again I dont look my age at all. Its really irritating, so I know how you feel. Just be strong and prove them wrong!

People are always going to be rude. I would try to ignore it, even though its hard sometimes. 

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo [P&F:“ Young moms will always get shit for their age... i still do and im 21... When people find out im about ... [snip!] ... your little guy doesnt care... he thinks your the best mommy in the world, and isnt his opinion the one that really counts??”

Have you figured out what causes it yet? LMAO, that's too funny. Nope! Could you fill me in? LOL The only opinion that matters as to whether you are a good mommy or not is your baby. I can only imagine how tough it is to be a teen mom. Ignore the ignorant   Good luck, dear!