anybody?

anybody else feel like they got NO slack from their significant other right after having your baby? My daughter is only 6 weeks old and my boyfriend constantly talks down to me like im just a lazy piece of shit. even though i dont work i still contribute because my mom is helping me out with a little bit of money and im getting paid through short term disability. he keeps saying if he could stay home all day the house would be clean he has no idea what its like, notto mention i had a csection and was SUPPOSE to be out of comission for 2 weeks but no i was up cooking meals and doing SOME cleaning not enough to satisfy his ass obiviously. o yah and how many diapers has he changed since she's been born? 2.

ugggh. I'm sorry. Don't listen to him. I think guys are clueless. You had a baby, I'd be "lazy" too. Plus you are taking care of the baby. Would he like to switch? That'd be a nice change...

I'm sorry you're in such a predicament! The next time he has a day off you should leave the baby with him all day and get out of the house! Even if it's just visiting family for the day....Then come home around supper time and ask where supper is....Give him a taste of his own medicine and he might be nicer to you!

my husband was out to sea till connor was 5 months old and missed his birth so i know the feeling, its hard but remember, marriage is hard. and having a baby makes it harder.. im not saying hes right.. but try to talk to him, maybe hell try more.. or maybe just hit him with a frying pan or take his toys away lol

My husband was the same way until he had the baby for about 2 hours while I went to a dentist appt. The dirty diapers never made it to the trash can, there was a dirty bottle on the coffee table, and my son was crying when I walked in the door. It looked like my husband was almost in tears too. lol. He understands now why the whole house is hard to keep clean when he can't keep the baby mess tamed for 2 hours.

he thinks he could do it! but he doesnt understand there's more to it than just taking care of a baby its taking care of a baby w/your hormones raging and your exhausted not to mention my mom tried to kill herself a couple weeks ago so its not the easiest time for me either.