calming Down Strategies

Hey ladies,

My hubby and I are having some financial problems right now that are causing some stress. Does anyone have any strategies for calming down and avoiding arguements? We don't want to lose another baby...especially to something that can be prevented.

My only tip is to put everything out there. My husband and I are taking financial classes and the biggest thing is to make a budget list and make sure that both of you know what page you are on financially and work through it together. The best thing that we've done is find free things that we both enjoy doing so that it doesn't make the other one mad when one wants to go to the movies, or go out to eat when we can't afford it. We just go for long walks or we take our son to the park. Just little things that can be very relaxing.