I cant orgasm

the only way i can have an orgasm is if i do it myself or when he goes down on me. Whats wrong with me. It feels good, but i can never climax, but i hear other women say that they have them. So why am i so weird lol? any advice? or anyone with the same problem?

me too!!! hehehe i think im werid... you might not be but i am... even if i do it myself it takes forever...

Lately I can't because it's so uncomfortable, and it sucks. So I've just decided not to have sex til my son is born 

Quoting Marie Amor:“ the only way i can have an orgasm is if i do it myself or when he goes down on me. Whats wrong with me. ... [snip!] ... climax, but i hear other women say that they have them. So why am i so weird lol? any advice? or anyone with the same problem?”

are you "focusing" really really good? lol

Quoting Marie Amor:“ the only way i can have an orgasm is if i do it myself or when he goes down on me. Whats wrong with me. ... [snip!] ... climax, but i hear other women say that they have them. So why am i so weird lol? any advice? or anyone with the same problem?”

Are you stimulating the clit in addition to the actual penetration?

Quoting onebabylove:“ are you "focusing" really really good? lol”

I try so hard lol. I lost my virginity at a young age and since that.... zilch..... it dont matter the size, it just doesn't work. uhhhhh.....

Quoting Larenna's Momma:“ Are you stimulating the clit in addition to the actual penetration?”

if we are "doggy style" i can do that, but i dont understand why i have to stimulate anything to orgasm.... why cant it happens when he just penetrating?

Quoting Marie Amor:“ I try so hard lol. I lost my virginity at a young age and since that.... zilch..... it dont matter the size, it just doesn't work. uhhhhh.....”

im with what the other girl said, stimulation before penetration!

Some women don't get off on penetration.

you just gotta figure out what works for you. before jarrett i couldnt orgasm during sex at all and when i met jarrett, the first month or so it didnt do shit for me but one day it felt SO good and i had never felt that way before... i dunno its hard to explain. try different positions or speeds and penitration depth

i think it takes a clear head. dont concentrate so much cause if you do your never gonna get it.lol. think about something sexual and get into it.

Quoting Marie Amor:“ if we are "doggy style" i can do that, but i dont understand why i have to stimulate anything to orgasm.... why cant it happens when he just penetrating?”

Because it's not the way most girls work! Just penis-vagina doesn't do shit for a lot of girls. I could grab a statistic if you'd like. Or I could make one up to make you feel better. But it's true either way. You've probably just gotta do both, and you'll be cured. You're what they call a clitoral orgasmer. Haha. NO that's not a technical term. I just pulled it outta my ass. But it's TRUE!

Quoting Larenna's Momma:“ Because it's not the way most girls work! Just penis-vagina doesn't do shit for a lot of girls. I could ... [snip!] ... You're what they call a clitoral orgasmer. Haha. NO that's not a technical term. I just pulled it outta my ass. But it's TRUE!”

i love your inner dictionary! haha

Quoting Marie Amor:“ if we are "doggy style" i can do that, but i dont understand why i have to stimulate anything to orgasm.... why cant it happens when he just penetrating?”

missionary all ways does it.

try being on top...that usually works..