how?

Ok so for those of you who don't know what's going on, I am on Provera for 10 days to induce bleeding, then after that I'll be on 5 days of Clomid, during that time I will be going in to have a dye test done to make sure my plumbing is working ok, then after 5 days of Clomid I will have an ultrasound to make sure the follicle measures at the right size, when it does I will have an hCG shot to induce ovulation. Now at that time we'll have about 48 hours to fertilize the egg. Then hopefully two weeks later a BFP. They are also doing a semen analysis on the DH this friday to make sure everything is working good there.
Now my question is how do you not get your hopes up? Like it all sounds so easy, and it hightens our chances getting preggo when we know when I've ovulating for sure and all that. But how do you not get your hopes up because there is always that chance that a test along the way that could change how easy this is for us, or something could gowrong. I think it about it a lot on how I would tell DH if I was pregnant and how we would tell our family and friends, but I am trying so hard not to think about it or get my hopes up but it makes it really hard when I take a pill every day that reminds me of what were doing and I think about all the steps we have still to go...

any advice? positive advice? because of a lot of issues Ican'tjust not do all this and leave it up to God or miracles or whatever, this is one of the only ways that this will ever happen for us, I am dealing with what I have been given, I am just trying to sort out my thoughts and not let this totally consume me...

Quoting 3nnovAl:“ Ok so for those of you who don't know what's going on, I am on Provera for 10 days to induce bleeding, ... [snip!] ... us, I am dealing with what I have been given, I am just trying to sort out my thoughts and not let this totally consume me...”

I don't really have any advice, but I hope everything works out and you get a BFP!   Good luck

Quoting Kaden's Mommy♥:“ I don't really have any advice, but I hope everything works out and you get a BFP!   Good luck”

thanks! Right now I just hope that all the tests and meds, etc go as planned.

It's sucks that it can happen so easy for others and some of us have to do all this crazy stuff. I don't even personally know anyone that has had a miscarriage or even had to try to get pregnant. My friends with kids either got preggo w/in a couple of months or it was an accident. I was talking to one of my BF from high school recently and she said they had to try awhile for their second kid. A whole three months! And with this Clomid business nobody even knows what that is until I tell them. I think its so foreign for everyone I know that they don't really feel comfortable talking about it.It sucks. I didn't mean to vent like that. Best of luck this go around!