Am I really being selfish

Ok I am supposed to go to a couple of classes next week before I start my online schooling ( i was stupid and dropped out w/ one credit left) and trac is giving me gas cards to drive to the class which is only 10 minutes away. I have to drive my grandma's car becasue I dont have one. My grandma never goes ANYWHERE, she also doesnt get up until like noon. My classes are from 9 to 2. She is telling me oh well that I need to find a ride to them or I cant go. That because I think that she should let me use her car, im being a lil selfish bitch. Its not like im using her gas. Plus every pay check I get I fill up her car and Im like her little slave anywhere she wants me to go for her i do. I even go to taco bell at 1 in tha morning like every other night. So I dont know how im the selfish bitch I dont know. I just wanted someones opinion about it

Well it's not like you can do much about it because it's her car, but I think you should be able to use her car since she isn't even awake yet...

Maybe offer to trade something? You can use her car in exchange for something that she really wants..?

It's her car, that's all I can say.

Oh I forgot to put I pay for both of our insurance on the car!

that is bullshit if you ask me.. but nothing you can do becasue its her car... all you can do is keep talking and trying to convince her or bribe her somehow, lol.

best of luck with that...

Quoting juggalette_mommy2be:“ Oh I forgot to put I pay for both of our insurance on the car!”

Lol that sucks, but it's still her car.

I agree, its bull. Especially if you pay for her insurance! But yeah, you should just let her know that you won't be able to get anywhere in your life (and get your own car) if she doesn't help you get to school! I mean, its not like its any inconvenience to her, but why don't you suggest that she just drop you off and pick you up if she really needs the car during that time, and then if shes like "are you kidding me, I'm not getting up that early" you can point out that she doesn't really need the car and shes just being a witch   But maybe theres some other reason she doesn't want you to...try talking to her. Good luck!!

ehhhh she is just being bitchy i know...which is bad to say about my grandma but I think she gets this way everytime she stops taking her meds..she aint crazy she got hurt at work like 4 years ago. I asked her to take me she said HECK NO lol. I have a Trac worker and she offers to take me to my trac meetings sometimes. SO my nana thinks that she can take me everywhere doctors appointments it dont matter. I try to explain that she has a job and alot of other kids to see and shes not on my beck and call

I'd look into taking the bus...

It's her car.

She doesn't need to let you borrow it.

i would say, okay you're right. i am selfish. so icancelled your insurance today. haha what a bitch.

I would take the bus...but we dont have a bus system in cedar hill! I just dont understand....I have to drive her everywhere but when i needa do something important I cant. I could understand if i was asking to go hang out w/ someone but i have to get this done I start college in sept!

If she's asleep when you leave, I would just take the car. She won't need it anyways. Besides, she can't reportit stolen if you pay for the insurance and are on the policy too.