do you think im overreacting?(kinda long)plz give opinions

well, thursday i paid my mom $100 for rent (which i pay each week for gas to get my BF back and forth to work) and then she made me put another $20 dollars in her tank. because we were going to see my grandmother. i only had 34 dollars to my name and i was supposed to buy stuff for the baby. and she had 15 dollars she could have put in but she wanted to buy weed so she said i couldnt go see my 75 year old sick grandmother unless i paid gas. so i did it and was left with 14 dollars for the weeks. which has to buy my BF lunch at work and stuff we need. and then just last night she went out partying and drinking and left us home with no food literally none in not exaggerating. they got to eat burgers while me and my boyfriend went without and it wouldn't bug me other than the fact that i'm pregnant. and we didnt have money to get any food because she made us put it in the tank because she wanted weed. and then sje made me fork over another $25 for weed... and i feel trapped i can't move out theres nowhere me and my BF can go... we hate it here we are treated worse than dogs...(they told us to eat what the dogs were eating.)... and i don't feel like there is anything i can do. and my BF is constantly getting yelled at because "we don't pick-up" when we ALWAYS clean up after ourselves and keep our room spotless... and they are always trying to get more out of us... and my step-dad has these dogs that sleep outside all year round and he refuses to clean their pen so they are sleeping in their own poop and are becoming sick... and he feeds them gross stuff and never pays attention to them.. and then makes me and my BF do all the work and bitches when it's not perfect i just don't know what to do srry its so long ladies.

Yeah,I'd move out ASAP I wouldnt want my child around that,poor doggys.

Can you get any help at all?

def. not overreacting... thats not a good situation you are in AT ALL. when you have the baby you HAVE to eat... i say try to get out of there... i know you say you dont have anywhere to go but i dunno... i dont like that situation

tell ya man get a job!!!!for real and save money to move...its not yuor mom who got you pregnant she should not have to support you for food etc...be grateful she allows him to live in her house...seriously im not trying to be a dick or anything but really...she smokes trees as long as she can afford it she can do it..really????now you pay rent???why dont your man it shouldnt be all on you he should help...and have a baby showeryoull get gifts for your baby....when are you due??

Quoting babydoll.:“ Yeah,I'd move out ASAP I wouldnt want my child around that,poor doggys. Can you get any help at all?”

i wish i had help idk where to turn and im scared to get involved with state help.

You should apply for WIC and look into getting assistance to help you get out of that place. It's not good to not eat and stress about what your mom does. Honestly, you can't change your parents or their actions. (SUCKS!) But you could go and find a way out of that situation. Just look up that info online..

you have to move out. do you think maybe you could stay at your old sick grandma's house?

if not.. try to get a rreally cheap efficiency place. i lived in a place that was all bills paid for 90 dollars a week, and you can get yourself on foodstamps so you dont have to worrry about food. and once the baby gets here you can apply for TANF.

wow... seriously thats #$%&*@# CRAZY. I would say that it dumbfounds me but some people can be down right heartless. I'm sorry you have to deal with a situation like this but have you tried applying for any type of assistance? I dont know about the laws and such in your state, but they do offer rent assistance in my state. Do you have a job? Your boyfriend? You need to get out of there NOW. Before that baby is born into that ... def not healthy.

I dont think your over re-acting...why dont you try to save up a couple dollars..and not tell her you have it..just tell her your broke..
and how come YOU are paying for your bf lunch??

Quoting 3 days overdue LOL:“ i wish i had help idk where to turn and im scared to get involved with state help.”

THAT'S WHAT STATE HELP IS THERE FOR!!! Honey don't be scared it is there for people who need it!

Quoting 3 days overdue LOL:“ well, thursday i paid my mom $100 for rent (which i pay each week for gas to get my BF back and forth ... [snip!] ... then makes me and my BF do all the work and bitches when it's not perfect i just don't know what to do srry its so long ladies.”

that sucks really bad. id do what i could to get the hell OUT OF THERE.
no offense, but thats messed up of your mom to be doing that to you while your pregnant.
get outta there!

oh hey you are a Maine momma to be - i posted this earlier for anyone in Maine thats gonna have a baby

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about276205.html

Quoting ♥xosweetmommyxo:“ tell ya man get a job!!!!for real and save money to move...its not yuor mom who got you pregnant she ... [snip!] ... your man it shouldnt be all on you he should help...and have a baby showeryoull get gifts for your baby....when are you due??”

i have had the baby shower and my man is the one with the money i just say its mine cuzz he gives it to me ... we are having finacial troubles... and i try not to rely on them i am only 16 and theres only so much i can do and my BF tries so hard
and no my mom cant afford the trees it wouldnt bother me if she could its money out of our pocket when she smokes... i was due 3 days ago and i just needed to pick up diapers for when shes here i have everything else from the babyshower

Is there a way that you can get on welfare so you guys can get your own place? If he's working all you need is a decent size 1 bedroom for now since the baby will be sleeping in your room anyways and it'll be just until you are able to work or whatever but thats not an enviroment you should be bringing a baby into. And for the heads up if someone told that your mom was smoking weed and your baby is there your baby could be taken away through DHS cuz it happened to my cousin

Quoting *!*AntsMommy*!*:“ I dont think your over re-acting...why dont you try to save up a couple dollars..and not tell her you have it..just tell her your broke.. and how come YOU are paying for your bf lunch??”

i think she is paying for it with his money - if youll notice she does not have a job. so im sure his money is their money.