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posted 20th Jul
So a while ago someone made a post about a friend of theirs that got herself pregnant after her and her boyfriend had anal sex by saving the sperm and putting it in herself later. Weird story. Sort of unbelievable, but here is my d&d:
Should the father of the child be made to take responsibility for the baby?

I honestly dont know what my position on this is, but I would like to hear yours!

**Addtional details**
-The guy did not consent to this. She saved the sperm without his knowledge.
-Apparently they were not having vaginal sex because the guy didnt want to risk her getting pregnant.
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I have 1 child & live in Manassas, Virginia
posted 20th Jul
I think he should be responsible. Obviously, if they are saving the sperm, they aparently wanted to have a baby? So if he consented to it, then he should, yes.
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I have 2 kids & live in Lincoln, Nebraska
posted 20th Jul
Can you do that!!!  
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I'm due January 11th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Ohio
posted 20th Jul
That's weird...
I would still think he should have responsiblity though, he was still having a form of sex. Even if it wasn't normal sex where she could get pregnant, if he wanted to make sure she wouldn't then he shouldn't have been doing anything.
haha Weird to think about... 
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I'm due November 25th (a boy) & live in Indianapolis, Indiana
posted 20th Jul
Yes... anytime you are with a woman you risk a pregnancy...


i know it isnt probable that she would get pregnant from anal, but it is POSSIBLE...
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I'm due January 3rd, have 2 kids & live in Davenport, Iowa
posted 20th Jul
If he can prove that's how they got pregnant then no I don't think he should be responsible but if they were having anal sex chances are they were having vaginal sex also. There would really be no way to prove that that time was when the pregnancy occured.
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I'm due February 26th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Jacksonville, Florida
posted 20th Jul
how did she gfet it out of her bummm..........never mind i dont want to know.

and if he was having anal then no because he thought he was safe from baby making. so nope just another way to trap a man. dumb lady.
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posted 20th Jul
Quoting mommyof2angels:“ I think he should be responsible. Obviously, if they are saving the sperm, they aparently wanted to have a baby? So if he consented to it, then he should, yes.”
The thing is he didnt consent. She was saving the sperm that came out of her without his knowledge and then putting it in her vagina (ugg, gross.) Its like she was trying to trap him or something.
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I have 1 child & live in Manassas, Virginia
posted 20th Jul
Quoting angel mommy:“ Can you do that!!!  ”
No clue! Someone made a post about it though. I kind of think its a little unbelievable.
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I have 1 child & live in Manassas, Virginia
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Sammie Jay©:“ The thing is he didnt consent. She was saving the sperm that came out of her without his knowledge and then putting it in her vagina (ugg, gross.) Its like she was trying to trap him or something.”

umm your not suppose to mix the back with the front cause you can ger an infection right...so if she was risking infection she had to pretty desperate for a baby, i think he could sue her for that...ok maybe not, maybe i just watch to much law and order
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posted 20th Jul
haha that is so bad. I told my husband about that post and I still laugh about it.. F'n ew though..that is so gross.

Back to the topic at hand, yes he should take responsibility, he had unprotected sex with her (even though it was anal and he probably thought he was in the clear).
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I'm due April 25th, have 1 child & live in Oklahoma
posted 20th Jul
Quoting J&LsMommy:“ If he can prove that's how they got pregnant then no I don't think he should be responsible but if they ... [snip!] ... are they were having vaginal sex also. There would really be no way to prove that that time was when the pregnancy occured.”
Apparently the story is that they werent having vaginal sex because the guy didnt want to get her pregnant.
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I have 1 child & live in Manassas, Virginia
posted 20th Jul
Quoting LOVES MONKEYS:“ how did she gfet it out of her bummm..........never mind i dont want to know.

Thats what I was kinda thinking!!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Lincoln, Nebraska
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Sammie Jay©:“ No clue! Someone made a post about it though. I kind of think its a little unbelievable.”
I am so confused, if they had vaginal sex also then it is his responsibility, but if it was just anal, then no, she might as well have went to a sperm bank.
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I'm due January 11th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Ohio
posted 20th Jul
Quoting LOVES MONKEYS:“ umm your not suppose to mix the back with the front cause you can ger an infection right...so if she ... [snip!] ... had to pretty desperate for a baby, i think he could sue her for that...ok maybe not, maybe i just watch to much law and order”
but how would you prove that??
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I'm due January 3rd, have 2 kids & live in Davenport, Iowa
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