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re: I just want a baby!!!

posted 20th Jul
Quoting Sammie Jay©:“ So a while ago someone made a post about a friend of theirs that got herself pregnant after her and her ... [snip!] ... made to take responsibility for the baby? I honestly dont know what my position on this is, but I would like to hear yours!”

Well, there are some questions. If such a thing did happen, did they use a condom? If it was anal and they used a condom, and she took the sperm from the condom - they I say no, absolutely not. You cannot get pregnant anally, and a condom was used in addition.

Now, if no condom was used - which seems unlikely - for this to happen I could only fathom it occurring in the instance of him taking off the condom with the sperm in it and her removing the sperm from the condom nearly immediately after it was tossed; I really don't see anyone extracting sperm from their anus (fetishistic sexual practices aside)... however if no condom was used, while you cannot get pregnant anally, it's possible (highly unlikely I'd imagine, but possible none-the-less) that upon pulling out some ejaculate could come within the vicinity of the vagina. So, while what she did would have been unethical, it's also possible that conception could have occurred anywat had she not done it, no matter how unlikely that possibility was, so I don't know. I still don't think he should be, mostly because I don't see that scenario ever occurring, but I don't know. heh.

C.
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I'm due March 18th (a girl), have 1 child & live in St. Catharines, Ontario
posted 20th Jul
Quoting msplainjane:“ He DID have a choice though. He couldn't have chosen not to have sex with her or to use a condom, that's not hard. It would have prevented this situation.”

And saved her the trouble of shitting out the sperm herself. Do you really think a condom would have stopped this chick? There's only so many precautions you can take and there are many ways around them.
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I'm due February 26th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Naha, Japan
posted 20th Jul
Quoting mommyof2angels:“ I think he should be responsible. Obviously, if they are saving the sperm, they aparently wanted to have a baby? So if he consented to it, then he should, yes.”




From what I read, he did not consent to saving the sperm.
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I'm due June 10th, have 1 child & live in California
posted 20th Jul
Quoting snugglymama:“ Ummm I may be wrong but I think her point was that the chick saved the guys sperm without his knowledge ... [snip!] ... her getting pregnant. In this case I would say there is no way this poor guy should be held responsible for anything at all.”

Your right... I wasen't aware that he didn't consent to saving the sperm... I caught that later on...sorry
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I have 2 kids & live in Lincoln, Nebraska
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Sammie Jay©:“ So a while ago someone made a post about a friend of theirs that got herself pregnant after her and her ... [snip!] ... without his knowledge. -Apparently they were not having vaginal sex because the guy didnt want to risk her getting pregnant.”


It's probably already been said but yes, he's responsible because anal or not, it was sex and there was still always the very real possibility of getting pregnant, even through those means.. If he really and truely didn't want children, he needs to wrap it up..

They're condoms afterall, they're a helluva lot cheaper than a college education  

and btw, poopy spermies? Fuckin' gross!!
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I have 3 kids & live in Kuwait
posted 20th Jul
Quoting J&LsMommy:“ And saved her the trouble of shitting out the sperm herself. Do you really think a condom would have ... [snip!] ... a condom would have stopped this chick? There's only so many precautions you can take and there are many ways around them.”


AMEN she was after his juice.
but honestly didnt this bitch ever hear of a blow job, why take it in the ass for some jizz ...
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posted 20th Jul
If he didn't want to risk her getting pregnant at all he shouldve worn a condom and then flushed it down the toilet when he was done. Guys should know by now there are some real whacko girls out there!
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I have 1 child & live in Kent, Washington
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Haley (14 weeks left):“ If he didn't want to risk her getting pregnant at all he shouldve worn a condom and then flushed it down ... [snip!] ... and then flushed it down the toilet when he was done. Guys should know by now there are some real whacko girls out there!”


no flushy condoms. bad for toilet. trust me  
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posted 20th Jul
I don't remember the Op of the post she's talking about mentioning a condom at all. If I were a guy though and worried about getting a girl pregnant I would absolutely use a condom and get rid of it myself! No he didn't consent to this but he could have taken other measures to try and prevent it, other than butt sex lol.
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I'm due April 25th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Oklahoma
posted 20th Jul
*wonders* IF that song crazy bitch by BuckCherry was written about her?

And maybe the baby will come out a lil extra dirty or stinky that may help prove his case! Or maybe the baby will grow up to be full of shit (like a lawyer) and that'll helpdaddys case nah nevemind could just be born a male and that would be indecipherable
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I have 2 kids & live in Maryland
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Haley (14 weeks left):“ If he didn't want to risk her getting pregnant at all he shouldve worn a condom and then flushed it down ... [snip!] ... and then flushed it down the toilet when he was done. Guys should know by now there are some real whacko girls out there!”

Because I'm sure he knew subconsciously what she was planning on doing. Theres some pretty wacko guys out there too. You can't protect yourself from everyone.
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I'm due February 26th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Naha, Japan
posted 20th Jul
Quoting LOVES MONKEYS:“ how did she gfet it out of her bummm..........never mind i dont want to know. and if he was having anal ... [snip!] ... he was having anal then no because he thought he was safe from baby making. so nope just another way to trap a man. dumb lady.”

you can still get pregnant from anal! its not like all the sperm just stays inside of you.. just like you can get pregnant from just foreplay.. if that sperm gets anywhere near your vag you CAN get pregnant.

i am proof myself! which is why i was pretty damn shocked to find out i was pregnant. oh well.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 20th Jul
I thought the sperm was only active for a short amount of time? Is this even possible that she save it without him knowing? Weird..

but I dontthinkthe baby would behis responsibility, I think it's like using a sperm bank only without the sperm donors permission?

Weird and gross, and I would feel bad for both of them, the man that was tricked and taken advantage of, and the girl for feeling so desperate.
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I'm due December 28th, have 2 kids & live in Woburn, Massachusetts
posted 20th Jul
gross and weird but yeah he is responsible he had sex with her. what she did was wrong ect. and disgusting.
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I have 2 kids & live in Blacksburg, Virginia
posted 20th Jul
Quoting Jynefir Dyan:“ you can still get pregnant from anal! its not like all the sperm just stays inside of you.. just like ... [snip!] ... vag you CAN get pregnant. i am proof myself! which is why i was pretty damn shocked to find out i was pregnant. oh well.”

But this was done deliberatly for the sole purpose of trapping this man.
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I'm due February 26th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Naha, Japan
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