stupid fu**ing teen parents.

first and foremost let me start off that this is NOT directed to ANYONE on this site. I'm an 18 year old teen mom of two boys myself, so im not just some crazy bitch bashing ALL teen moms. I am however in the mood to bash the stupid ones. I live in a small town and honest to god, the marjority of the girls around here, ranging from the ages of 15-18 are either pregnant, or already have a kid, now maybe a handful of them are actually responsible, good parents; the rest however, fucking embarrass the hell out of me and should be ashamed of themselves. I have alot of these girls on my myspace, most of them i went to school with, and my god tonight i got on, out of pure boredom and was just browsing through everyones sites to see how they were doing, and everything that ive seen has just left me so pissed off im litereally shaking as i type this. I look at there pictures, and there might be 2 or 3 of there kids, but the rest are of the mother/fathers drinking, smoking, and just acting a fool. I start reading there comments, and there all from people (alot of which are parents themselves) asking if and when there going to come party and "live it up" again, that there bored, and that there "little shits" are driving them up the wall. I read there bullitens, and there bitching about there parents not watching the "damn baby" so they can go out to party, or the mall, or to the movies, etc. Ugh, it's just ridiculous. How can you honestly say anything bad about your parents not watching YOUR child. they've done raised you, i doubt they want to raise YOUR child as well. This one girl delivered her baby June 16th, so she's alittle over a month pp, and honest to god i think she's taken care of her son by herself for maybe 2 nights, the rest of his month of life has been spent at his grandparents (the moms parents). Ugh, it just pisses me off so bad. These women are the reason that so many people think teenagers can't handle being a parent. These women are the reason that I have to bust my ass to get any kind of respect from my community as a parent and person. These women are the reason that people look at me and my kids out, and look down and shake there head, or give me a dirty look. If your so much into partying and drinking while your a teenager than GREAT, thats what living your teen years is all about, but damnit to hell if your unresponsible and get pregnant, then guess what, THE PARTYING IS SUPPOSED TO STOP! Yeah, sure, i get in my moments when i want to sit around and mope because i can't do anything that a normal teenager can, but then all i have to do is look at my boys faces and it automatically puts everything into perspective , that hey, god has blessed me with two beautiful, smart, healthy, perfect little boys, how could i possible want anything more in life. I don't understand how a woman, at any age, can look at her kids and still want to go out and party. Sure, getting a break every now and then is acceptable, but if your going out every night, or even every other night, thats a problem, and you should be ashamed of yourself. I pray for your kids, but i pray even harder for yall, i pray that you grow up and realize the precious things god has bless you with, and i pray that you start taking care of your responsiblities instead of relying on everyone else to take care of them for you.

shew, rant done  

AMEN!!!!!!!

While I tend to agree, What is posting a topic about it going to do other than start drama? People are going to for whatever reason associate themselves with this, and be idiots and NOT read your first sentence. They are going to take offense becasue for whatever reason, they apparently want to be offended. It's not going to change anything.

amen!! I read today that this one girl smokes pot and don't really care about her kid(not on here) It sickens me. You want to have a child then grow up and stop the drugs and drinking. Sure if you want to go out once in a while thats ok but to party everyday like its your birthday and not living up to responsibilities is selfish.

Some people arent ready to be parents and sometimes they wont grow up to become a parent. I would be pissed too, if they didnt want kids then they shouldnt be having sex it's that simple.

I agree I know someone who is pregnant and I can see her being the exact same way forcing her parents to take care of the baby while she does whatever the hell she wants to its annoying!

My night out is going to stay with my parents for the weekend with my daughter. my parents live2 hrs away and they let me sleep in. and before i was preggo i would have a few drinks with my parents after my daughter went to sleep.

Wow, that is all so true. I am not against teenage moms. I'm really not. But some of them give the rest of them a really bad name. I applaud you for stnading up and saying something.

Quoting Flounder♥:“ While I tend to agree, What is posting a topic about it going to do other than start drama? People are ... [snip!] ... goingto take offense becasue for whateverreason, they apparently wantto be offended. It's notgoingtochangeanything.”

agree..

THANK YOU! but my problem is that its not just the teen parents who act like this...i know many adults who need to grow the hell up and take care of their kids and stop partying! taken my uncle and his wife for example...they have never had their baby on the weekend...since he was born hes stayed with her mother(whois just horrible!)and now they are having another baby!!

Quoting Flounder♥:“ While I tend to agree, What is posting a topic about it going to do other than start drama? People are ... [snip!] ... goingto take offense becasue for whateverreason, they apparently wantto be offended. It's notgoingtochangeanything.”

I agree with her also, but Idon't think it will start drama. And if someone does decide to try and make it drama, that's just retarded. All she did was vent about people who are irrisponsible. (sp)..

Quoting Flounder♥:“ While I tend to agree, What is posting a topic about it going to do other than start drama? People are ... [snip!] ... goingto take offense becasue for whateverreason, they apparently wantto be offended. It's notgoingtochangeanything.”

how is it starting trouble. i clearly stated at the top that it was not intended for anyone on this site. this thread did nothing more but make ME feel better, and it kept me from puching some idiots in the face.

oh... and that's not just Teen parents... I know someone who is 24 and does the same thing... so it's not just a teen issue...  

Thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth.

It's not ALL teens that do that though. I lot of people into their twenties and some into their thirties are the same way.

I don't sit around crying because I can't go out and do drugs. I rub my belly and thank god I have a wonderful and loving family.