Men issues againnnn....

My husband left today....a few hours ago. Hes been acting like a jerk for the past 2 or three days and I have been doing my best as far as doing my part around the house n stuff, but I can only take so much and I finally just got pissed and started talkin my sh*t!...and of course I said stuff I didnt mean, but gosh what the hell am I supposed to do?
So finally today he just got off of work and picked me n the kids up from my moms n starting telling my dad how he's going to start working another job because he is tired of using my truck and wants to buy his own, and what a jerk and how selfish I am, and how tired he is of my sh*t. So we drove home and on the way I told him if hes so tired of me then leave...and dont bother comming back if he needs anything, so I took his house keys and let him take my truck as he packed a bag of his stuff. I told him to take everything because I dont want him back if he leaves, and he said he will be back for the rest of his stuff when he finds somewhere to stay. So hes gone, and I don't know what to do....or if it was my fault or is he talking to someone at work, or if he just really is tired of me and our kids altogether......I need some advice..this sux!

i'm so sorry to hear that. I don't want to offer advice because I don't know the situation well enough, but I hope everything works out for the best. And you both can be happy again whether that is with each other or apart.

Swallowing your pride is no easy task. But if you tell him to do things that you don't actually want him to do, it's going to make you both miserable.

I guess the best thing to say to him would have been something like..."If you don't want to be here anymore, you do have the option to leave." Because if he wanted to, chances are he'd have taken you up on the offer.

I sincerely hope things get better for the two of you. Try not to let your anger get the best of you, because nothing good comes from it. I'd tell him the same, also..

I hate when shit goes down hill with men. I hope something gets worked out with you two, I feel like you are a strong woman though and can overcome many obstacles. I wish you the best of luck with him and the bullshit.