re: :( i dont want to be a bad mom

Quoting McLeary:“ when you apologize you arent supposed to try and justify your mistake... but I will leave you alone now, I think you get the point”

i didnt i apologized that you all took it wrong.
and that it was worded wrong thats not justifying its stating that i should have re-worded so you all wouldnt take offense to it.
i admitt it was wrong.. and i moved on but apparently no one else has. and yes i got the point the first time you attacked me about it .

Quoting Gina!:“ Haha, maybe   My mom said the same thing, and hopefully I get used to it soon, for now its just stressful because its all so new.”

my mom stayed with me for 2 weeks and would sleep with kailey and let me sleep in my bed. shed wake me up when kailey needed me and that helped me get the sleep i needed. is there anyone that could maybe help you like that? i know its really hard to sleep when baby sleeps because you want to stare or you feel like your day is being wasted away but trust me the more sleep you get the better you will feel. and it can def. be frustraiting. hopefully youll get lucky and your baby will sleep through the night fairly early  

Quoting a l e x.c a i l e e:“ i didnt i apologized that you all took it wrong. and that it was worded wrong thats not justifying ... [snip!] ... it was wrong.. and i moved on but apparently no one else has. and yes i got the point the first time you attacked me about it .”

fair enough

Quoting ♥K-Bears*Mama♥:“ my mom stayed with me for 2 weeks and would sleep with kailey and let me sleep in my bed. shed wake ... [snip!] ... feel. and it can def. be frustraiting. hopefully youll get lucky and your baby will sleep through the night fairly early  ”

My mom and dad both let me sleep until I needed to pump or something last night, and that helped a lot.
He's sleeping right now, and I should probably sleeping too, but yeah it does feel like I'm wasting my day

Quoting Gina!:“ You obviously dont, I never EVER considered giving my baby up for adoption, I'm stronger than that. ... [snip!] ... still doing it shows a lot, you'll know what I mean whenever your baby comes along. If you cant relate, then dont criticize”

Just take one day at a time and yes you are really strong to keep going and not want to give up. Do you have any family that can help you out a little here and there? I know it's all new but when your babys 6months+ and smiles and talks your going to know it was all worth it even the sleepless nights/weeks.

Quoting Gabes Mommy  :“ Just take one day at a time and yes you are really strong to keep going and not want to give up. Do ... [snip!] ... new but when your babys 6months+ and smiles and talks your going to know it was all worth it even the sleepless nights/weeks.”

she smiles at me at first glance in the morning even if she's cryibg... aaahhh its been worth it.. she sees her dad asleep and smiles too.. its wonderful...

now I feel dumb for even thinking once about abortion..

not that I considered it, but it was the situation at the time, you know?

When you have a baby, even at an older age, everyone finds it difficult.


It's hard to go from a highschool student, to a mom. Especially when your still in school. It seems like your life has come to an end, doesn't it? Well, it has. But a new one has begun. It'll get easier when the baby's older, just... Be patient with your child. You will get a hang of it, just be patient.

Quoting Gina!:“ My mom and dad both let me sleep until I needed to pump or something last night, and that helped a ... [snip!] ... that helped a lot. He's sleeping right now, and I should probably sleeping too, but yeah it does feel like I'm wasting my day”

yeah i never slept when she did during the day. but having help at night def. helps... did it make you feel better?

Quoting Gina!:“ My mom and dad both let me sleep until I needed to pump or something last night, and that helped a ... [snip!] ... that helped a lot. He's sleeping right now, and I should probably sleeping too, but yeah it does feel like I'm wasting my day”

i had these feelings and thoughts right after i had her everything they need you have to give them its hard but you sound strong you will do great if you have to get out of the house fo a while bye yourself or with the baby just getting out of the house really helped me alot...

Quoting Mavick:“ she smiles at me at first glance in the morning even if she's cryibg... aaahhh its been worth it.. she ... [snip!] ... I feel dumb for even thinking once about abortion.. not that I considered it, but it was the situation at the time, you know?”

Yeah i thought about adoption and abortion and now that i look at my son i couldnt imagine my life without him. Every morning i wake up with him and he plays and talks to me before he eats and when he sees his daddy still asleep he'll crawl to him (he sits on the bed with me in the morning) and hits him until he rolls over and starts talking to him.

The other day i let him crawl around on my floor and he started heading out the door! And my moms putting new carpet in the living room just so it wont give his knees carpet burn. He's so spoiled.

*edit to add* i could never go through with either one it was just a thought that alot of women probably have. Because when i had my son my highschool life ended but my new life as a mom began. And i couldnt be happier.

Quoting McLeary:“ 16...25...its hard nomatter what age honey. Stick it out, it gets better you just need time to adjust ”

I agree...im 21 (had my daughter when i was 20) and I have a good job and a stable home...and even with all that it's still hard at times. I break down and cry too at times....it'll get better and feel more natural as time goes by...your a good mommy!

Quoting Kichelle05:“ I agree...im 21 (had my daughter when i was 20) and I have a good job and a stable home...and even with ... [snip!] ... hard at times. I break down and cry too at times....it'll get better and feel more natural as time goes by...your a good mommy!”

yep and now Im 26 and Im sure Ill be crying...lol