Worried Friend..

so i was talking to my best friend yesturday (or should i say the only true friend i have left) .. and she was telling me she was sick and wasnt feeling well and having really bad pains in her 'reproductive area'. She said she had sex with her boyfriend that morning and it hurt so bad after she couldnt move for about an hour.
So then i jokingly said well man your probablly pregnant.. and she was like no but i havent had my preiod for a week and usually it comes like clockwork. So then of course i instantly knew she was pregnant... (i keep having feelings about people haha) and she was one of my feelings. So i knew and didnt tell her.. i just said run across the street and get a HPT.
She told me she was waiting for her boyfriend to get home so he could get her one. (he works at shoppers drug mart) . Anyways .. so i never heard anything yesturday she never called and i wasnt on MSN all night. so i wake up this morning and shes crying.. or had just been crying and i was like OMG shes deff pregnant.. what the hell.. ANYWAYS so shes like "umm im pregnant" .. and there was some silence and then i was like ... yea i know. She told me she called her mom and told her and her mom was upset but supportive and that she had called her b/f from work and hes comming home to be with her. Which is good becuase its to hott for me to walk there and support her right now.
But heres the thing im worried about the baby.. about her. Like i said i get feelings and right now i have a feeling she is going to miscarry and be upset and its going to change her forever. Her dr. told her she might not even be able to have kids because shes had 2 abortions ... (this was before we were good friends) .. and he told her i guess that it could be hard for her. So then of course now shes pregnant and ACCTUALLY wants to keep the baby (and im very proud of her choice) ... but i cant help thinking something is going to happen.
I guess all i can do is be there for her right.. she is scared, which i understand. But her boyfriend isnt taking this seriously..
i dont know what kind of advice to offer when her boyfriend thinks its a joke.. im really worried about her. should i tell her im worried or let it be.

sorry this is long and kind of pointless i just dont know if i should say anything to her about the way i feel.   im thinking no but i would like to see your opinions.  
thanks!!

Quoting a l e x.c a i l e e:“ so i was talking to my best friend yesturday (or should i say the only true friend i have left) .. and ... [snip!] ... if i should say anything to her about the way i feel.   im thinking no but i would like to see your opinions.   thanks!!”

Just try and be as supportive as you can and sympathetic to her concerns. But I had a girlfriend who had several abortions when we were younger, she now has three beautiful and healthy kids. So its possible that she will carry this baby to term and everything will work out for her.

No don't say anything. Many women have had previous abortions and gone on to have sucessful healthy pregnancies. You will only cause her to worry and stress and that can cause a miscarriage.

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ No don't say anything. Many women have had previous abortions and gone on to have sucessful healthy pregnancies. You will only cause her to worry and stress and that can cause a miscarriage.”

thats what i was thinking.. her lifestyle isnt all that healthy either.. she eats alot of fast food and fatty stuff and she "used" to drink ALOT!! and she smokes.. i dont know i guess im more worried for this baby.

Quoting a l e x.c a i l e e:“ thats what i was thinking.. her lifestyle isnt all that healthy either.. she eats alot of fast food ... [snip!] ... of fast food and fatty stuff and she "used" to drink ALOT!! and she smokes.. i dont know i guess im more worried for this baby.”

I eat fast food and fatty crap all the time. My kids are healthy. I used to drink and smoke as well. Take her some prenatals and talk to her about going to the doctor soon. The doctor will say everything that needs to be said to her.

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ I eat fast food and fatty crap all the time. My kids are healthy. I used to drink and smoke as well. ... [snip!] ... her some prenatals and talk to her about going to the doctor soon. The doctor will say everything that needs to be said to her.”

she called me about which ones to take!! which i thought was really good and i told her on the phone she needs to get into see the dr. and she agreed she was going to do that soon.

Quoting a l e x.c a i l e e:“ she called me about which ones to take!! which i thought was really good and i told her on the phone she needs to get into see the dr. and she agreed she was going to do that soon.”

Well she's off to a great start. Just be supportive and answer any questions she has.

Quoting J&LsMommy:“ Well she's off to a great start. Just be supportive and answer any questions she has.”

for sure im deff here for her she was the only one here for me  

ok if she just found out she is pregnant why is she running around telling everyone.. she should wait til she at least 3 months